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melodylogan45

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Losing love ones
« on: November 27, 2018, 03:59:24 am »
I woke up this morning to get ready for work and automatically started feeling sad about 3 loves ones we lose lost in a matter of a few years.

Time is so precious.

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #1 on: November 27, 2018, 04:39:20 am »
I agree, my hubby lost his mother in February and she lived in a different country, she was not really sick and it was so suddenly that he cold not see her before she left us, it has been very hard for him and the everyday struggle is so real.  Please make sure you spend as much time as you can with your loved ones
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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #2 on: November 27, 2018, 05:42:53 am »
Nothing hits harder than the loss of a loved one.  My grandma had gotten ill the day after mother's day 2010 and it feels like I lost her only yesterday.  It's like having your heart ripped out and some days it's harder than others.  Especially around the holidays.  With my grandmother, at least the last thing I was able to tell her before she fell asleep t die was that I loved her.  Because she had a stroke she couldn't talk but she took my hand in both of hers, brought it to her lips and kissed it.  It's those memories that help ease the pain.   

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #3 on: November 27, 2018, 07:50:55 am »
My friend lost his dad before Thanksgiving, his funeral was yesterday.

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #4 on: November 27, 2018, 08:12:22 am »
I wish you  :peace:

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #5 on: November 27, 2018, 11:08:31 am »
I lost my 95 year old granny last month.  It has been very difficult.  I called her every night for about the past 15 years.  I still catch myself attempting to call her in the evenings.  Not looking forward to New Year's Day at all.  That was a big family gathering day at Granny's.
Have a wonderful day!

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #6 on: November 27, 2018, 11:53:06 am »
Sorry for your lose, especially this time of year, when family is so important...

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #7 on: November 27, 2018, 01:01:03 pm »
Yes, I lost three love one with one year apart.  Be kind to one another and tell them you love them. 

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #8 on: November 27, 2018, 04:15:31 pm »
I have lost a lot of loved ones, each and every one leaves  or left a void in my heart. My faith has helped me along the way and very good friends. One gave me a poem about losing our loved ones. we are all on loan from God and as time passes  he calls them home. sometimes we are so full of hurt that we are not hearing him. But as I have said faith and knowing our Lord helps.

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #9 on: November 27, 2018, 04:17:08 pm »
I woke up this morning to get ready for work and automatically started feeling sad about 3 loves ones we lose lost in a matter of a few years.

Time is so precious.

It is completely normal especially around the holidays.

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #10 on: November 28, 2018, 06:15:14 am »
Lost but not forgotten. The dearly departed are still remembered in my prayers and dreams. Forgotten is bad habits/traits they may have had. Happiness follows as I know they are in a happier place. Wallowing in sadness does not do anything good for those that are still with us. I think breaking up with a long time love interest can be worse than death. You find yourself wondering what the other person is doing, who they may be with, if they are thinking of you or if they are safe. None of those questions surface with those that have passed-there is no constant torture/torment. I think that losing, or out living, children is the worst thing that can happen to a person and could not imagine overcoming grief resulting from that level of loss.

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #11 on: December 01, 2018, 11:07:23 am »
The Holidays don't help one bit, either. :( I lost my Mom back in April and I'm not feeling this Holiday season at all. I miss my sweet Mom.

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #12 on: December 01, 2018, 07:55:33 pm »
I totally understand that. It's especially hard around the holidays :(

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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #13 on: December 01, 2018, 08:06:44 pm »
Life can be short.  I have lost a lot of family in the past years to include my parents and grandson.  I miss them so much, but I want to believe they are in a better place, without pain.
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Re: Losing love ones
« Reply #14 on: December 01, 2018, 08:08:45 pm »
Bible clearly explains death is an enemy of man.Thats why those feelngs  are natural yr round.

My wife and i havent even gotten over our dog passed now 5 months ago.Death s*ucks!!

Death ISNT life!!

If God called them to a better life the bible wouldnt say death is an enemy.
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