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braggin

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #30 on: November 03, 2018, 12:47:39 pm »
No I think that's a really lousy idea. When you break up (and those romances always do), you are stuck in the same place with the person every single day, which is not a very good position to be in.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #31 on: November 03, 2018, 01:04:12 pm »
No, it is not a good idea.  What happens if and when you break up?  Does not make for an easy atmosphere.
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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #32 on: November 03, 2018, 04:26:00 pm »
I have never actually dated a coworker, but I have had a fling with one.  Something I'm not very happy about.  I was going through a difficult time.  It was uncomfortable after that.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #33 on: November 03, 2018, 05:36:41 pm »
I never have and I have never even been tempted to.  It's like anything else.  Yeah, it's a real bad idea, but that can go out the window when you are in the situation.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #34 on: November 03, 2018, 08:37:23 pm »
Yes I did it and after 17 years of dating and living together it went south.  After that I will never do it again

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #35 on: November 04, 2018, 01:39:49 am »
I have, it didn't turn out well.  I went through a divorce and she was near. but she was very liberal and i wasn't.  It was over in a few months.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #36 on: November 04, 2018, 03:30:06 am »
No, it does appear to be a recipe for disaster....

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #37 on: November 04, 2018, 03:51:09 am »
Nope never. It may work out well for others but I never attempt this.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #38 on: November 04, 2018, 04:26:34 am »
Nope, never really thought about it either....did know a couple that did though and it seemed to work out alright (they got married and ended up changing jobs so don't know what happened to them)

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #39 on: November 04, 2018, 05:45:27 am »
I wouldn't do it or recommend it myself, but I've known others who have where it turned into a positive thing. And it sounds like many in this group have had success at it...

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #40 on: November 05, 2018, 11:31:38 am »
No, I never have nor had a desire to.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #41 on: November 05, 2018, 12:05:03 pm »
No, I don't want to mix it up. Always have a problem dating a co worker. It's ok if you are in good relationship but the time if you are fighting the work is affected also.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #42 on: November 05, 2018, 12:47:02 pm »
Lord, no, I would never do that. When I think about my exes ... would I like to keep seeing them for 40 hours a week, every week? That would be a disaster. I'm happy to be dating people I don't work with.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #43 on: November 05, 2018, 01:10:09 pm »
Only when I was in high school and college. Never in my adult career.

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Re: Have you ever dated a coworker?
« Reply #44 on: November 05, 2018, 03:54:56 pm »
it is unnecessary to date a coworker because you might have feelings for that but don't so is not good to do it

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