Does it bother you...

[countrygirl12]

Just curious but does it bother you when someone doesn't like you and makes it clear they do not like you and they have absolutely no reason at all to not like you.

I know people are judgmental.  They judge others on their appearance (which people cannot always help), or on something the person MAY have done in the past (just because you hear something doesn't mean it is true), or for something that did happen in the past years ago. 

If you were in a situation where a new co-worker or someone you go to church with or whatever - if they make it clear they do not like you would you want to know why?

[brian8713]

No, because their opinion means absolutely nothing to me. I only care about the opinions of friends and family. My ex-husband hates my guts and probably wants me dead (LOL), but it doesn't bother me because I'm not wasting any more time on a fat loser.

[rghvac69]

At first I think it would bother me, but eventually I wouldn't care.

[tnshpalmer85]

It doesn't bother me when someone doesn't like me but it makes me curious sometimes if I do not know why. I knew of someone who didn't like me for years and I have no idea why.

[countrygirl12]

I guess I don't really care. Like me or don't. But I do wonder what the problem is. I have never done anything to them and they have no reason to just flat out dislike me.  Probably something completely stupid.

[tantricia44]

Nobody, can make you feel inferior or hated without your consent! Don't waste your energy, worrying about something you can't control! It's their problem they have a problem with you whatever it is!

[bshee58]

I try not to let it bother me, if you don't like me, it's not a problem, my life doesn't revolve around you liking or not liking me, i'm not going to stress myself out over it.

[countrygirl12]

I try not to let it bother me, if you don't like me, it's not a problem, my life doesn't revolve around you liking or not liking me, i'm not going to stress myself out over it.

And I try to do just that.

[ancmetro]

It is a free world. Different strokes for different for different folks.
There will always be people who do not like others. Just ignore them.
Do not hang around them. Why waste your valuable time with annoying people!   

[dreamyxo]

I really don't care that's their problem not mine especially if I know I've never done anything to them.  Some people just don't like you for no reason who knows why.  I'm not mean or rude to people but I'm pretty good at just ignoring people who aren't worth my time because of their attitude. 

[shawnix]

 If I know there isn't a reason for a person to dislike me, I don't let it bother me. I would be curious to know why the person feels that way about me

[fillfran82]

Just curious but does it bother you when someone doesn't like you and makes it clear they do not like you and they have absolutely no reason at all to not like you.

I know people are judgmental.  They judge others on their appearance (which people cannot always help), or on something the person MAY have done in the past (just because you hear something doesn't mean it is true), or for something that did happen in the past years ago. 

If you were in a situation where a new co-worker or someone you go to church with or whatever - if they make it clear they do not like you would you want to know why?

Hello!

I would like to say that it doesn't bother me but it does. I know I care way too much what people think about me even though I know I'm a good person. It all has to do with my low self-esteem!

[makeblessed]

No, it  does not, people are entitled to their feelings/opinions and i am not going to try and change them as long as they are respectful I move on and enjoy the company of those who wish to be in my company.

[metsrock69]

I have had people in the past tell me or tell someone they don't like me. No reason and it did not bother me because I have always had a lot of friends and I just hang with the ones that do like me.

[beatsdrop]

It depends on the person really, but I'm sensitive and usually hate it when people don't like me. Oh well.