March is a sad month for me......

[tantricia44]

March 2, 2009 my husband passed away violently at a rehab center of imbeciles who just stood there & stared as he sat up and & started violently shaking! 9 years now & all I can do is light a candle in his memory,....... can't even do that light a real candle cuz one time I almost burn the house down after falling asleep with it on the bed! I'm just sad cuz , he's missing so much as technologies become more advanced & available to the customer! He was so smart, to me & others who knew him, his death was a lost to the worlds' gift of knowledge! RIP Honey, you are greatly missed!💕

[ktheodos]

Sorry for your loss.....

[kimber62372]

I'm so sorry for your loss and that is such a sad story. Please know that he is always watching over you and knows what is going on. His spirit his always with you. Light and peace to you. I wish you comfort and ease during this difficult time for you. 

[ccandpam]

my prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry to hear about your Husband. He is Happy now in Heaven with our Father though. Try to focus on that.

[jkhanson]

I am sorry for your loss.  I can't imagine the deepness of your grief.   May your memories of him and your time together give you some peace. 

[jwkelly]

What was his problem  that he was in rehab and died ? Was it the worst sprain ever ?  Drugs ?

[teresa3200]

I'm so sorry for your loss. What a terrible thing to happen.

[pkrahmer]

 I am so sorry for your loss.  I feel your pain. My father died on the same day and 2011.  I hope that you will eventually be able to celebrate your husband's life  and be able to enjoy memories of him. God bless 

[JaniceSW]

Oh, Tantricia, I am so sorry to hear this.  It's difficult when we feel that maybe something could be done to prevent someone from suffering and it wasn't.  I know what you mean by technological and scientific advances, particularly into disease.  Just the other day the news announced that stem cells are starting to be used to treat Alzheimer's because they tend to prevent the proteins from developing that are associated with Alzheimer's. This is such a hopeful thing because there are a lot of people who are aging who either have it already or may develop it.  For example, my mother was diagnosed with it and that means I have a higher chance of developing it than someone else with none in their family. I am so hopeful about the use of stem cells.  I think they may be the answer to other diseases and conditions in the future. Sadly, there is research that will find many things in the future that many of us now at a certain age will not benefit from.

[Nancy5]

tantricia44, I am so very sorry for your loss.  I think your husband could not want you to be sad but to remember all the laugher, happiness, and love the two of you shared.  Keep him in your heart, remember him always, but try not to be so sad, he’s looking down from heaven and will be protecting you and with you until you meet again.  God bless you.

[demaina]

I'm so sorry for you and I can understand why this is a bad month for you.  The only thing to do in moments like this is to try and focus on the good memories instead of feeling bad because he isn't there with you.  I've lost way more people than I wish in my life, and while I miss them terribly, I try to remember how they were instead of getting overwhelmed.

[lguzman1]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[mapiklfish]

So sorry for your loss.  Spring was bad for me several years in a row.  Seems all my horses died in the Spring.  Not all at the same time but, I always dreaded Spring coming around.  It was always either March or April.

[Cbsteffen]

Don’t dwell on losing him. Think happily about your best memories of him. Also, advancements in technology really aren’t always good. That can mean addictions to technology will get worse, and humans will become lazier and lazier.

[mrsmere]

Sorry for your loss just try to remember the good times you had with him.