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Azanne07

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family that disagrees with everything
« on: December 31, 2017, 07:17:54 pm »
How do you deal with a family member that always seems to have the opposite opinion of yours?

Like he always disagrees with everything that I post on facebook it doesn't matter the topic.

or maybe he just posts when he disagrees with something.

hitch0403

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #1 on: December 31, 2017, 07:30:56 pm »
Tell him he can have everything in your parents will.And hope he disagrees.

On a serious note this world is loaded with people like that.They are bad listeners for starters and extremely only interested in themselves.A sure sign of the times told long ago.

Id leave it at hello and good-by if u know that they always wanna disagree.
« Last Edit: January 01, 2018, 01:37:20 pm by hitch0403 »

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #2 on: December 31, 2017, 08:31:43 pm »
Once. In a while ask why he/she disagrees with you and see if the answer is legit

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #3 on: December 31, 2017, 10:35:37 pm »
How do you deal with a family member that always seems to have the opposite opinion of yours?

Like he always disagrees with everything that I post on facebook it doesn't matter the topic.

or maybe he just posts when he disagrees with something.


Hello! :D :)

Everyone is able to have a different opinion from you it's part of life. However, if they are disagreeing with you just to disagree can be a problem. I would suggest trying to talk it through and workout whatever needs to be worked out. :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose:  :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose:
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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #4 on: January 01, 2018, 05:53:51 am »
Why don't you just Unfriend him, or click on the little thing in the upper right hand corner of one of his posts and unfollow him so you won't get anything from him in your Facebook feed going forward?

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #5 on: January 01, 2018, 05:53:57 am »
How do you deal with a family member that always seems to have the opposite opinion of yours?

Like he always disagrees with everything that I post on facebook it doesn't matter the topic.

or maybe he just posts when he disagrees with something.


Don't walk to him. If someone is always arguing on YOUR Facebook page then DELETE then and BLOCK them. Problem solved. I deleted and blocked a cousin and her mother a couple years ago when she kept trying to "prove me wrong" and then laughing at me because I wouldn't cower to her opinions.  SO I unfriended her, and her mother, and then blocked them. I don't have to see them. And at family reunions they do not speak to me. But ya know what - I am totally okay with that.

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #6 on: January 01, 2018, 05:55:37 am »
How do you deal with a family member that always seems to have the opposite opinion of yours?

Like he always disagrees with everything that I post on facebook it doesn't matter the topic.

or maybe he just posts when he disagrees with something.


Hello! :D :)

Everyone is able to have a different opinion from you it's part of life. However, if they are disagreeing with you just to disagree can be a problem. I would suggest trying to talk it through and workout whatever needs to be worked out. :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose:  :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose:

I have a co-worker like this. I swear if I said the sky is blue she would say it is green just to disagree. I try to avoid speaking to her. lol

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #7 on: January 01, 2018, 05:56:56 am »
Might sound very strange, but i'd give anything to have a family member even to bicker with, I've been without even a cousin for over 10 years, and it's really hard during the holidays !! 
« Last Edit: January 01, 2018, 06:44:33 am by sbenkoski »

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #8 on: January 01, 2018, 07:13:54 am »
that sounds like me and my daughter..no matter what i say she says something different...
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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #9 on: January 01, 2018, 07:59:34 am »
ignore them completely

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #10 on: January 01, 2018, 08:40:04 am »
Why don't you just Unfriend him, or click on the little thing in the upper right hand corner of one of his posts and unfollow him so you won't get anything from him in your Facebook feed going forward?

If he posts comments on her posts then unfollowing him will not work. She will still see the comments.

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #11 on: January 01, 2018, 08:41:12 am »
Might sound very strange, but i'd give anything to have a family member even to bicker with, I've been without even a cousin for over 10 years, and it's really hard during the holidays !! 

You have NO family at all? I couldn't imagine not having any one at all that I was related to.

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #12 on: January 01, 2018, 08:45:39 am »
I wouldn't bother ask their opinion on any matter that requires a serious input from that family member, he is not being helpful on decision making, or just he is a people pleaser,  so no don't ask for his take on the matter.

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #13 on: January 01, 2018, 09:23:02 am »
Why don't you just Unfriend him, or click on the little thing in the upper right hand corner of one of his posts and unfollow him so you won't get anything from him in your Facebook feed going forward?

I don't comment on anything of his so blocking what he posts wouldn't solve the problem at all

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Re: family that disagrees with everything
« Reply #14 on: January 01, 2018, 11:50:25 am »
Just ignore them and don't comment back.

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