Dating more than 1 person at once

[ghunter]

Don't sound too good to me, but do as you please.

[heypeg]

One or two dates doesn't mean your in a relationship so I wouldn't think it would be a problem.

[PGS28]

Just don't mislead anyone and all should be fine.

[kingozzy]

are you hoping for a 3 some?

[JaniceSW]

Brian: I think it was not that long ago since your marriage ended.  You sound fairly young.  It is time to explore and see what you want and what you DON'T want!  Several dates are not enough to make a relationship.  Once you have spent real time together, quality time, where you have fun and discuss, discuss, discuss to see if you both are on the same page, then you will know if it's time to take the next step.  Usually, at some point, there is a discussion of being exclusive unless someone states up front that they only date one person at a time. Three things: 1.  Take your time,  2.  Make sure you raise and discuss the issues that are important to you in your personal life alone and in a relationship that you share,  3.  And if there is any sex involved, take it slow and easy and use protection against disease.  Make sure you don't feel badly about yourself and the way it happened and don't put yourself or anybody else at risk.  Respect yourself in all your dealings with others.  You will be glad in the end!

[freedavis]

Dating is many is to expensive.  Date one

[Ittai]

Sorry to hear that you are going thru that and i personally dont approve of it/ dating 2 , 3, 4 etc . Good luck with everything!!

[teenangel]

I don't believe in dating More than one person. I rather have one person in my live than worry about getting an STD

[Segun15]

I don't believe in dating more then one person because you never know what kind of stds are out there so stick with one person for you health sake

[gaby_ro_2004]

I think you need to slow down.Take your time to know a person,don't go out with 2 people in the same time.Be honest and open with them.If you keep playing this game you are going to lose.Big time.

[cathy37]

I think it is okay as long as all parties involved know that at this point it is casual dating and no heavy feelings are involved at this time.

[countrygirl12]

I want your thoughts on where my life is heading. Feel free to be brutally honest if necessary. I'm a pretty honest and moraled guy.

As of yesterday, I am now dating 2 guys, neither of which knows about the other one. My 1st boyfriend has been with other guys since we started dating. I said it's fine with me, and it is. Sometimes, you just want sex with someone else. But, I'm not going to sit around at home pining away for him while he's out getting it on with other guys. So yesterday, I went on a 1st date with a very nice gentleman. We talked considerably and are both interested in pursuing something more than just sex with the other person.

So now I have 2 boyfriends.

I've never been in this position before. I didn't agree with open relationships (for myself) until my marriage ended. It can be hard to commit yourself to just one person. At least for me. I'll admit that. My question is, should I tell them both about the other guy as soon as possible? I'm not looking for them to fight over me. I'm just honestly having a good time with both of them, and would be up for an exclusive relationship with either of them if they really want one. Should I tell them both about the other one? I've literally had 1 date with boyfriend #2 and (to disclose everything) I haven't had sex with either of them yet. Three dates with Boyfriend #1.

You say be honest. Be brutally honest. But I don't think you really want that. If people are brutally honest and give their honest opinion I can see you crying you are being bullied.

[madeara]

I only date one person at a time.

[Jayce2013]

so hmm... I think we are only human and that can happen...
BUT.. while with your 1st boyfriend you clearly have an open relationship... as he goes out with other people anyway...
this new person you just met, boyfriend n.2, might want something more serious.. and therefore not going out with other people...

I think you should be honest with n.2, ask him if he wants an open relationship or if he would like to see you and only you and try to work it out..
so if you DO like n.2, just find out and try to respect the other person. If n.2 does not want an open relationship, maybe you should think of leaving n.1 IF this is what you want.

just make sure you are fair to yourself and to the person you are dating!  good luck 

[kdemers0]

Dating- that is fine.

Boyfriend/girlfriend- that is an issue.