Do you ever feel like your single again , after you met a guy?

[Teacher8889]

I have been with this guy for a while , he a great guy to be with . he make me laugh and smile .  but right now he going through a rough time  , because his mom going through battle of cancer and they had to hospice care in the home . so he not doing good .  So right now my life with him on hold right now , its putting a diffcult time for me , because i want to see him and be with him . its hard not seeing the person that you care so much about . Trying to be that support system for him , being understanding .. that really hard to do .  because I guess some women  would had been gone , but  i am a very caring person and have a heart of gold .  he a great guy and don't want to lose a great guy .

  he a nice and loving guy , he has a son . but with everything going on , sometime i feel like i am single still , because he can't  pick up the phone and text if he thinking about me , or something .   its hard

[king4cash]

Do not give up on him just yet, his world is crumbling right now, give him some space to come to reality...hopefully he bounce back to you...for support.

[clickers]

Just be there for him anyway. Remember he's not thinking clearly right now. Don't take it to heart how he's acting right now. He needs you but he doesn't know how to express it.

[hitch0403]

If you help and support him with his mom in the long run it may really win you over with him!

[madeara]

I agree.  Just be there when he needs you.

[vg7405]

I am in the same way. I am in a similar situation. I started communicating with this guy about a week ago. We spoke over Skype last week, but haven't heard much from him since. He says that this week is particularly busy, which I sometimes question (I am still working on being insecure, due to past relationships and encounters). We are set to meet for a date this Saturday. He says that the date is still on, but I am absolutely terrified of being stood up by him. But I'll just go through the motions for now.

[jushigi]

Just be there for him whenever he needs you but also let him have the space that he needs right now. It is tough when your parent's health starts to worsen. Just stick with him for a little longer and he will be endlessly grateful in the end.

[katylaf]

Just be there for him whenever he needs you but also let him have the space that he needs right now. It is tough when your parent's health starts to worsen. Just stick with him for a little longer and he will be endlessly grateful in the end.

I totally agree. I had a close friend who's mom got cancer and he was in a very bad place for a long time. I was happy to be there for him whenever he needed me, and he was so thankful that I never turned my back on him.

[bremer51]

Hospice care is not for the faint of heart. Especially when its his mother.  You hang in there and be your normal caring self. Touch base with him. Offer your support.  You are a human being first and he is a man who needs your kindness.  Don't concern yourself with the rest. Sometimes when things seem to be falling apart, they're just falling in place.