Lets talk about men :)

[jessica2386]

i dont know what to say about men....sometimes you love them sometimes you dont i dont understand why half decide to cheat when they have a good woman on their side. i have a good man but unfortunately he's incarereted thats a shame cant have a good man in the free world...but then again how good is he gonna be when he gets out???

[vitaliymitityuk]

THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE, YOU JUST HAVE TO LOOK. IT SEEMS LIKE THEY'RE ALL BAD BUT NOT EVERYONE IS BAD. WITH A FEW BAD ONES BEFORE, I NOW FOUND A GOOD ONE, FINALLY!

[davidbankson]

We're evil, get used to it.

If you want to find a guy that that isn't evil, then stop looking for a guy and just enjoy being with yourself. Once you can do that and not worry at all about whether you are with someone, then a good guy will notice that, and you'll be happier in the end anyway.

[pabpaj]

There are a ton of good men out there (and an equally ton of not-so-good men, too).  Just like women.  Love is sometimes subject to the law of large numbers (have to kiss a few frogs to find a prince...) philosophy.  I've been there.  I'm in my second marriage and am darned lucky to have found my lovely man!  I know of four really great men in my life (my hubby, my son, my father and my maternal grandfather).  I know more are out there as several posts before this indicate it is so....  I'm sure the men in this forum have been through similar experiences with women.  It's tough to find good people but it's very rewarding when you do!  Still, women rule! 

[tigerlilly01]

I have the closest thing to a perfect man that could ever be.  I have been married twice before to men who treated be terrible.  They both cheated on me and the last one tried to choke me to death.  I thought there was no way I would ever get married again..... and then along came Mr Wonderful!   I know that God put us together because it is just so great.  Keep believing and when you least expect it .... he will come along.
             

[ddrewitz]

I would consider myself one of those good guys you speak of.  I am now engaged and I try everyday to make her feel like she is a queen.  Speaking from experience, being the "nice" guy often gets you friends with girls who have no interest in dating you.  This is especially true when you are younger like high school or college age.  Most girls are looking for that good looking guy who is dangerous or something like that.  It seems like girls gravitate to the jerks and leave the nice guys there until the jerk does something then she looks to the nice guy for comfort just long enough to find the next jerk.  All the while, the nice guy sits there with no real chance of ever going anywhere with her.  I happened to get very lucky and got an amazing girl who has been with some jerks and truly appreciates me and shows it.

[mara7]

I had to train my husband to become a better husband... We have
been married 8 yrs. so far.

[davidbankson]

There are a ton of good men out there (and an equally ton of not-so-good men, too).

I disagree, it's not equal in my opinion...the liars and cheats far outweigh the good people in the world.

[kangotti7]

I have an amazing husband

[thanhkle2003]

The best ones to keep are the ones you met when you were younger. Growing up with someone and falling in love can create one of the most long lasting and loyal frienship in life.
 Of course we know there's not many out there because most relationship doesn't hold up when life starts to get the way. Then, we move on to be with the ones that have been through through unsucessful relationship. It doesn't get easier to work on a relationship where both parties have been in relationships that didn't work. Most of the time, we try to work on our flaws and don't have clarity to move on let alone try to help that other party. The other thing that can happen is one person has been through drama and the other is lack of experience. This is not quite the combination either. The lack of experience person doesn't understand that their world is about to be flip upside-down.
There are still good men out there. I think sometimes we focus on the the physical feature rather than how nice a guy is. Most women end up getting into relationships wher they get hurt because of this mistake. A good man has more to offer than just his good looks.

[ghuft01]

that is great its amazing how things can change and for the better,i am on my third marriage first one about 4 years and very abusive we had one son,then second one only lasted 1 year he was younger than me by 2 years but he was so hyped out all the time and was not anywhere near settling down,no children with that one now i have been married 10 years and we have three children together and a total of 5 children between us,there are good times but alot of bad due to economy and money issues,this one just cant hold a long term job anjd i love him to pieces.but we argue alot about all of it,its sad that money does this to love.good luck in yours sounds like you found mr right congrats,and happy future to you hold on to him tight,sounds like a winner.
i know what you mean! i spent the first 6 years of my "dating" period going from one "rotten" man to another. it seemed they all had one (or sometimes more) of the following issues: liars, cheaters, abusers (including physical, mental, emotional, and substance), too much drama (usually from their previos relationships), immaturity, or we were at different stages of our lives. then, 5 years ago, i gave up. i threw my hands up in the air and said i was done trying to find mr. right, or any other mr. for that matter. i had a few quiet weeks of spending time with family and other single girl friends. then one night, went to a bar with my girls, and this very attractive man asked me for a light. i'm not a smoker so what were the chances that i just happened to have ended up with my friend's lighter in my pocket. so i gave him a light and we then struck up a conversation that led us outside, where we sat and talked for 3 hours. we exchanged phone numbers, started hanging out, going to movies, to the beach, out to eat, just real casual. and then, before either of us realized what was happening, we fell in love. we dated for 4 years and have now been married for one year! and he is a great guy! very nice, laid back, funny, charming, intelligent, and an excellent provider for our family. i guess the point of all this is that there are still a few good guys out there. you just have to be patient, be open minded, and don't settle for anything less than what you deserve!

[marcar1008]

If men would just think with their BIG head   and not with their LITTLE head everything would be ok.

[yolandazwei1]

Men. Where do I start with the topic. It would take a whole day to say something about men

[eneidaselina]

Men. Boy I sure have alot to say about men but just don't get me started. All I  know of all the men that live in this world maybe only about for me a little % is worth while

[wsydephatty]

thanhkle2003
i agree w/you