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Gerianne

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making new friends
« on: April 16, 2016, 08:07:19 am »
we always remember the friends we meet as we live our lives.
For the most part anyway.
I looked my address book one time and there was on name I did not recall.
When I looked at the other entries of people I have known, I could remember where I met them

A classmate from high school looked me up when I was on Facebook. He told me that he defended me when I was being bullied. I did not remember him. My excuse? There were about 200 students in our school..... a sea of faces. You might remember the popular guy who played the lead in the yearly stage performance or the cheerleaders you saw at the football games.

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #1 on: April 16, 2016, 02:03:16 pm »
yeah i had to do a lot of making new friends, i had some friends but they were just street aquaintances, its always jumping around for me, i still havent found a very niche

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #2 on: April 16, 2016, 03:21:34 pm »
It takes me awhile to make friends, i just sort of sit back and take things in for awhile before i really get to know them. I think a lot of it is because we moved around so much as a kid. I went to 13 different schools and spent the last 3 in one school. So i was just a little standoffish . But  i did go to school with 4 of the students at a little country school before all went to high school. Also made a lot of great friends and we all still keep up with each other now.

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #3 on: April 16, 2016, 08:57:59 pm »
I'm very selective about who I spend time with because I don't like people trying to play minds games with me.  Also, I enjoy spending time alone so I don't have a constant need to be with someone else.

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #4 on: April 16, 2016, 10:56:55 pm »
i find it easier to have no friends. then nobody can stab you in the back

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #5 on: April 17, 2016, 09:33:40 am »
i am a pretty private person --i find to many friends makes you a sucker --i have just a few very close friends and the rest are just people i know --lot less drama --i mainly just stay home with my fur babies and life is good !

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #6 on: April 20, 2016, 01:07:36 pm »
I have always had trouble making friends. I have some but it seems like we don't catch up like we once did. I do wish I had more friends.
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Re: making new friends
« Reply #7 on: May 01, 2016, 11:22:56 am »
I'm quiet irl, so it can be hard to make friends. I wish I had more friends. :(

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #8 on: May 01, 2016, 12:20:13 pm »
I've never tried to make a lot of "close" friends. I get along with pretty much everyone but not really a people liking person. I'd rather have a few close friends than dozens of aquintences

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #9 on: May 01, 2016, 04:05:02 pm »
I made a lot of friends on the Internet and some I get together with often for lunch and talk over what we are doing.

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #10 on: May 01, 2016, 06:31:42 pm »
To be honest, I have a very difficult time in making friends (or socializing with anyone period). But not because of choice. I have just spent a very sheltered childhood and focused so much on school and work over the years that my social life has been stunted. I am NOW trying to develop a social circle. And it is indeed difficult. :-(

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #11 on: May 01, 2016, 10:35:22 pm »
I have a number of acquaintances but very few true friends.  I feel it's better that way, at least for me.   :)

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #12 on: May 02, 2016, 04:47:21 am »
I too am selective as to whom I hang around with and/or call friends. The main reason being is that people can pull you down to their level and/or bring added drama to your life.  :o I'm on bigger path nowadays and can't spend my time with people who aren't going nowhere in life.
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Re: making new friends
« Reply #13 on: May 02, 2016, 08:21:42 am »
its always good to make new friends and some times you domnt rememeber people or events .

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Re: making new friends
« Reply #14 on: May 04, 2016, 08:53:53 am »
I want new like minded friends. I plan to get out more this year- I've been saying that for a couple of years now but this year I actually will position myself to meet new people.

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