Heart broken

[cateyes1]

Why she doesn't want to talk to you?

Have you even read the comments?

Thank you countrygirl but I guess she hasn't hun.

[countrygirl12]

Sorry that is happening...most things people do is because of their own issues...that probably doesn't help...but I liked what someone said...leave the door open...

Thank you, the door is wide open, and yes that helped

I just had a thought and you may not be interested in going this route but after giving it a little time or maybe now do you think or have you tried having a mediator?  Not sure if her father is still in the picture.  Or a mutual friend or family member?

[cateyes1]

Sorry that is happening...most things people do is because of their own issues...that probably doesn't help...but I liked what someone said...leave the door open...

Thank you, the door is wide open, and yes that helped

I just had a thought and you may not be interested in going this route but after giving it a little time or maybe now do you think or have you tried having a mediator?  Not sure if her father is still in the picture.  Or a mutual friend or family member?

Hun I think a big part of this is and she and I have talked about it before. She is 38 and she NEVER met her father. We got divorced after I had her and he has only seen her once or twice in court....I think that is a BIG part of her problem, her father wanting nothing to do with her and some say she may be taking that out on me as well.

[colbtrist]

I would say I am sorry and that I am here for you. Bless you both.

[cateyes1]

I would say I am sorry and that I am here for you. Bless you both.

Colbtrist I have said over and over that I am sorry for my part in this. She is just so stubborn to accept and own up to her part....thank you so much !!

[Catwomanj10]

June 2, 2016

Hello to everyone out there in Fusion Cash World

I say that what you need to do is to "never give up on your daughter!"   And, I agree with the other member who said tot keep the "doors of communication" open with your daughter.

Instead of an email write out a heart felt letter to her personally and then go to one of your favorite restaurants or get together with a close friend and ask them to take you to the beach and pack a picnic lunch and then take pictures of you and your friend at the beach and hold up a poster with the words "Call me and let's do lunch some time, sweetie pie?"  or use whatever nickname you have for your daughter.


And, if it's possible and you know how to do it,    then send her a video message of yourself and tell her to her face, "Hello daughter come visit your mother" "And, I will treat you to lunch or dinner if you want!"  "But, let's get together and do lunch or dinner, ok?"

And, just give her to God and pray over this situation and ask God to help you to reunite with your daughter once again!

[hawkeye3210]

She wronged her husband, but what did she do to you? For someone who was blasting other parents, I'm appalled at some of the things you have claimed to say to your own daughter. Glass houses...

[cateyes1]

She wronged her husband, but what did she do to you? For someone who was blasting other parents, I'm appalled at some of the things you have claimed to say to your own daughter. Glass houses...

     .....I was waiting for you to chime in on this. Before you start with the glass house comments,  why don't you read EVERYTHING  that I said about this matter.

[cateyes1]

Hawkeye , what other parents are you talking about...it was 1 other parent..don't start making things up now. Shame on you

[heypeg]

This is very sad, I can imagine how hard this must be.

[hawkeye3210]

She wronged her husband, but what did she do to you? For someone who was blasting other parents, I'm appalled at some of the things you have claimed to say to your own daughter. Glass houses...

     .....I was waiting for you to chime in on this. Before you start with the glass house comments,  why don't you read EVERYTHING  that I said about this matter.

I did. If you want her to talk to you, comments like "I wish I never had her" and "I have no respect for her as a daughter and that she was a disappointment to me" are just making things worse. Those aren't things you should say to your daughter period.

[hawkeye3210]

Hawkeye , what other parents are you talking about...it was 1 other parent..don't start making things up now. Shame on you

There was a mother and a father, that makes them parents. More than one.

You made multiple comments about blaming the "parents" and not just one of them. I'm not making anything up.

[cateyes1]

   ......And you compare this to the gorilla chat? Hmmm how?  ...where/when did I EVER mention the father? ...I always talked about the mother..you are so bad
She wronged her husband, but what did she do to you? For someone who was blasting other parents, I'm appalled at some of the things you have claimed to say to your own daughter. Glass houses...

     .....I was waiting for you to chime in on this. Before you start with the glass house comments,  why don't you read EVERYTHING  that I said about this matter.

I did. If you want her to talk to you, comments like "I wish I never had her" and "I have no respect for her as a daughter and that she was a disappointment to me" are just making things worse. Those aren't things you should say to your daughter period.

Hawkeye , what other parents are you talking about...it was 1 other parent..don't start making things up now. Shame on you

There was a mother and a father, that makes them parents. More than one.

You made multiple comments about blaming the "parents" and not just one of them. I'm not making anything up.

[cateyes1]

   ......And you compare this to the gorilla chat? Hmmm how?  ...where/when did I EVER mention the father? ...I always talked about the mother..you are so bad
She wronged her husband, but what did she do to you? For someone who was blasting other parents, I'm appalled at some of the things you have claimed to say to your own daughter. Glass houses...

     .....I was waiting for you to chime in on this. Before you start with the glass house comments,  why don't you read EVERYTHING  that I said about this matter.

I did. If you want her to talk to you, comments like "I wish I never had her" and "I have no respect for her as a daughter and that she was a disappointment to me" are just making things worse. Those aren't things you should say to your daughter period.

Hawkeye , what other parents are you talking about...it was 1 other parent..don't start making things up now. Shame on you

There was a mother and a father, that makes them parents. More than one.

You made multiple comments about blaming the "parents" and not just one of them. I'm not making anything up.

....where did I EVER talk about the father?

[hawkeye3210]

   ......And you compare this to the gorilla chat? Hmmm how?  ...where/when did I EVER mention the father? ...I always talked about the mother..you are so bad
She wronged her husband, but what did she do to you? For someone who was blasting other parents, I'm appalled at some of the things you have claimed to say to your own daughter. Glass houses...

     .....I was waiting for you to chime in on this. Before you start with the glass house comments,  why don't you read EVERYTHING  that I said about this matter.

I did. If you want her to talk to you, comments like "I wish I never had her" and "I have no respect for her as a daughter and that she was a disappointment to me" are just making things worse. Those aren't things you should say to your daughter period.

Hawkeye , what other parents are you talking about...it was 1 other parent..don't start making things up now. Shame on you

There was a mother and a father, that makes them parents. More than one.

You made multiple comments about blaming the "parents" and not just one of them. I'm not making anything up.

....where did I EVER talk about the father?

You said parents. Both were there. Why would you only blame one of them? That doesn't make any sense. And you complain about your daughter being stubborn. Good grief.