Heart broken

[cateyes1]

......I didn't even know the father was there....ok I stink as a parent shoot me at dawn...Wow!!

   ......And you compare this to the gorilla chat? Hmmm how?  ...where/when did I EVER mention the father? ...I always talked about the mother..you are so bad
She wronged her husband, but what did she do to you? For someone who was blasting other parents, I'm appalled at some of the things you have claimed to say to your own daughter. Glass houses...

     .....I was waiting for you to chime in on this. Before you start with the glass house comments,  why don't you read EVERYTHING  that I said about this matter.

I did. If you want her to talk to you, comments like "I wish I never had her" and "I have no respect for her as a daughter and that she was a disappointment to me" are just making things worse. Those aren't things you should say to your daughter period.

Hawkeye , what other parents are you talking about...it was 1 other parent..don't start making things up now. Shame on you

There was a mother and a father, that makes them parents. More than one.

You made multiple comments about blaming the "parents" and not just one of them. I'm not making anything up.

....where did I EVER talk about the father?

You said parents. Both were there. Why would you only blame one of them? That doesn't make any sense. And you complain about your daughter being stubborn. Good grief.

[cateyes1]

Hawkeye don't you have places to go and people to see?

[ktheodos]

There's bound to be a point where they will need you...when they reach out, be ready...

[cateyes1]

There's bound to be a point where they will need you...when they reach out, be ready...

...Thank you but my daughter will never need me, and if she did she wouldn't let me know she did....I can't keep dwelling on it because I'm making myself nuts ...I just failed as a mom...just how I feel

[cateyes1]

The only way that I can see my daughter and grandkids was to make a fake account on FB (I know so wrong to do) BUT, my youngest grandson will be 3 this month and I only met him 1 time....I did take a pic off my daughters page of her and my grandson and posted them to my page because I am so proud of them and I LOVED the pics. Some how my daughter found out and this is an email she sent me.........................................You are a pathetic excuse for a mother, I specifically asked you not to put my photos on your Facebook for all your little freak weirdo friends to see but yet you continue to stalk my profile and steal my photos.... Do not email me ever again.

[mrisha]

I do understand when something may happen with parents.  The worst part is that you don't know why.  And only she may give you the answers.  That maybe a problem if she isn't talking.  Just leave it alone, and hopefully she will start talking to you again.

[Catwomanj10]

July 4, 2016

Hi

Well, I guess you could email your daughter and say something like, "Daughter, did I do something to offend you?"  "If so,  what was it?"  And let's talk about it and get it out in the open!  I do apologize if I hurt your feelings in any way and I would like for you to tell me what I can do to remedy the situation.

I would like to continue to be a part of your life, but only if you allow it.............otherwise, if you don't want me in your life, then let me know and I will stop emailing you .........but just know that my arms are always open if you ever need to talk with me or even cry with me.

Love Mom

[cateyes1]

July 4, 2016

Hi

Well, I guess you could email your daughter and say something like, "Daughter, did I do something to offend you?"  "If so,  what was it?"  And let's talk about it and get it out in the open!  I do apologize if I hurt your feelings in any way and I would like for you to tell me what I can do to remedy the situation.

I would like to continue to be a part of your life, but only if you allow it.............otherwise, if you don't want me in your life, then let me know and I will stop emailing you .........but just know that my arms are always open if you ever need to talk with me or even cry with me.

Love Mom

Thank you but I tried that. One of her friends told her that I was trying to drag her down, now how is it that I am proud of her and wanted a couple of pictures dragging her down?...I give up on her ugh

[nannycoe1]

There must be a reason for her actions, just keep trying to get through to her.

[cateyes1]

There must be a reason for her actions, just keep trying to get through to her.

Yes there is a reason and I post it already, thank you

[mrsmere]

I know someone doing the same thing but we don't know why there is no contact.  All you can do is ask for forgiveness and wait it out.  Hope and pray she will come around and forgive you.

[debidoo]

I don't know how to advise you - I wish I did.  I have a brother and sister that I haven't seen for six years ever since our mom died - in our case all over a combination of greed and drugs.  I wish most of all that your daughter would realize how short life is and how your chance to make things right and have a relationship can be snapped away from you in an instant.  Well I wish the best for you and that something will happen to reconcile.

[cateyes1]

I don't know how to advise you - I wish I did.  I have a brother and sister that I haven't seen for six years ever since our mom died - in our case all over a combination of greed and drugs.  I wish most of all that your daughter would realize how short life is and how your chance to make things right and have a relationship can be snapped away from you in an instant.  Well I wish the best for you and that something will happen to reconcile.

I'm sorry for you Deb, I don't get family some time. It is hurting less for me not to have her in my life, I do miss my grandkids though....thank you

[Nancy5]

I wish I could tell you something to say to her to make it better, but sadly I don't.  I know it has to rip your heart out with no contact. Hopefully one day she will realize she only has one mother and will contact you.  I'm sorry for your situation.

[cateyes1]

I wish I could tell you something to say to her to make it better, but sadly I don't.  I know it has to rip your heart out with no contact. Hopefully one day she will realize she only has one mother and will contact you.  I'm sorry for your situation.

Thank you Nancy. She emailed me and said that she lost all respect for me and considers me dead. I doubt i'll ever see her again.