You know, it does not bother me in the slightest that gay people are allowed to get married and it doesn't bother me in the slightest that they raise a kid either. I could just as easily look at a heterosexual couple and feel that a child is raised poorly as I can a gay couple. Having said all of that, for me, I feel that women are naturally more nurturing and men are naturally more the disciplinarians. So a balance of both traits is the perfect combination! But is doesn't have to be male and female. Just my thoughts!