What Facebook has done.....

[cdanunzio]

ignore his request. you are not obligated to forgive him, let alone allow him to see personal details of your life in a voyeuristic manner.

[therese13]

i would be cautious. You didn't mention how old you might be. Do you want to re-establish contact with your Dad? Ihave found facebook a bit scary in this way. It is hard for me to ignore people, but sometimes I have to. I agree with some of the responses, be sure your privacy level is hi, if ypu really want to maybe just email him, not friend him, you probably don't want to share everything about your life. This could develop into a stalking situation. Good luck

[trop8cana]

Thanks so much you guys for your advice,input,thoughts and opinions....... I guess I still have some soul searching to do because I am in many ways afraid to open up this door because the things that my mother told me were true and sometimes I wish that it wasn't...but I figure at times that I went this long without him in my life....why do I need him now?...you know?....Every since he called himself finding me on facebook it has had my family all up tight....so I'm not sure...this is all crazy.....but I do thank you guys for everything......guess I have to pray about it a little more.....Thank You so Much Fusion Cash!

[trop8cana]

I feel like he's a complete stranger to me and I'm not sure if this is the type of stranger that I want to allow into my life....but I guess i just have to sleep on it for a while longer...this situation makes me have so much anxiety....

[debraleesparks]

 Honey believe me.. he's NOT your father.. he is just a sperm doner.