guys

[cberman]

I really like this guy but he wont date me because he is way older than me. i understand but to me its just age i told he that but he don't care. any advice would be great thanks my friends

[kimber62372]

How much older is he than you? Maybe he's married? Don't seem too eager and chase him. Maybe he likes the flirting and knows it's taboo. There can be so many resolutions or out comes to this. But keep us posted.

[linderlizzie]

Move on. When he realizes he's passed up a gem, he may become more interested.

OR you could tell him not to call it a date. You just want to be with him sometimes so that you can remain good friends.
All God's chillun luv companionship. 

Caveat: Please make sure he's not married before you proceed any further. That's BAD news!

[autumnsparklemom]

I don't think age matters but seems he is hiding something. Move on. More fish in the sea to catch....

[stretch1967]

Just be cautious. He has to be hiding something.

[aflyingmonkey]

IMHO, It doesn't matter the age gap, it matters what your ages are. It's not so much that he is older, it is that you are still young.  I'm guessing under 25?   If you are 18 and he is 45 then that is a big deal.   If you are 45 and he is 60 then not such a big deal. 

That Paul Walker from the Fast & the Furious who died started dating his 16 year old girlfriend when he was 33.   Now that is crazy to me...   not even legal.

Nothing can be hidden these days, just run a google search all will be revealed, there is no privacy anymore. 

[sherryinutah]

If he won't date you because he's older than you.....

he's looking for an out.  If a guy is sincerely interested in a significant other relationship with you...he probably won't care about your age...as long as YOU are over 18.

Let it go.   

[cberman]

I know he is not married trust me he is my neighbor he thinks of me as his little sister but I really do love him.. there is a big differences in our age so I can see why he wont date me lol but he is funny he has all these girls that want him but he wants nothing serious and I do because I am young and I would love to have a family thanks everyone

[cberman]

IMHO, It doesn't matter the age gap, it matters what your ages are. It's not so much that he is older, it is that you are still young.  I'm guessing under 25?   If you are 18 and he is 45 then that is a big deal.   If you are 45 and he is 60 then not such a big deal. 

That Paul Walker from the Fast & the Furious who died started dating his 16 year old girlfriend when he was 33.   Now that is crazy to me...   not even legal.

Nothing can be hidden these days, just run a google search all will be revealed, there is no privacy anymore. 

I will be 26 this year

[marciaenglish]

My husband is 10 years older than me; we get along great!  I guess age is just a number when you are over 50!

[countrygirl12]

I really like this guy but he wont date me because he is way older than me. i understand but to me its just age i told he that but he don't care. any advice would be great thanks my friends

It's really his choice.  You are not going to change his mind.  Most people have an age limit in what they want in who they date.  You cannot make someone "like" you if they don't.  And if you talk him into dating you then most likely it will never work because he is always going to feel the same way he does now about the age difference.

[moonangel]

if he really liked you he would date you he is just trying to be as nice about it as he can be

[moon29]

i dont think age matters as my parents are over 20 years apart in age however it seems like an issue for him.  give him some space and if it was meant to be then it will happen you cant force a relationship as it wont last.

[inertia4]

be careful and tread lightly. How many years older is he? And is he married? Find out more about him, he might be lying to you.

[natashaspy]

best advice is to just move on.  if he isnt comfortable with you then he really would probably not be happy and neither would you.  age is just a number, but not everyone believes that is true