men

[mnichols4]

Ok men i have a question for you guys why is it that a guy will always compare there current gf to past gf ? Is it cus he wants her back or cus he just wants to get under your skin an try to make jealous its just a question just wantted to get other mens opinion on it

[Yuliya6]

I would love a gentleman. who wouldnt? Most man these days just lost it...as well as Most women....why are we all loosing control! isnt there a time and place for that...I Bless you all..May you all improve.

[aggie49]

there are not to many men that are gentlemen the rest usally just want sex and when they are done you never heard from them i have been with gentlemen i don't go with guys that aact like they are gods gift to women

[tfw6693]

  Well, after being married 42+ years, I can't remember any past girlfriends. 

[countrygirl12]

Ok men i have a question for you guys why is it that a guy will always compare there current gf to past gf ? Is it cus he wants her back or cus he just wants to get under your skin an try to make jealous its just a question just wantted to get other mens opinion on it

The same reason women compare him to THEIR PAST BF.

[kingozzy]

Yes I'd say most women do the same thing, compare their man to the past ones, both do it.

[Tresbn00]

So many ways to answer this. Men generally say ten words for every woman's one hundred words so typically men do not offer up information. Women will ask men about ex-girl friends and then men are dumb enough to answer. Men are also dumb enough to answer other leading questions such as "do you think she is pretty" and "how do I look in this". If a man is offering up the information he is probably under the gun. Perhaps his girlfriend has been snooping through his things, cell phone, computer, paperwork in the box under his shoes...whatever.  I know so many women that do this. I am really big on trust and if my significant other is snooping through my things there is no trust and it is time to say good bye.

[ricdsm]

I have no answer for you.  I have been married 37 years.  When I found the right one, I stopped looking.

[Screwedupclick4life337]

Sometimes it's to aggravate the girl or it could be that they just miss they ex

[sherryinutah]

First of all, some men and women are intelligent enough that they don't compare.  Secondly, some people have unreasonable expectations of their partner and are in the process of defeating their selves in that relationship.

Anyone who compares their partner to a past lover is making a big mistake.   

[inertia4]

Honestly I never compared one girlfriend to another. That makes no sense to me. I will say that there is usually something similar to the other girls a guy dates because that is what he is attracted to. But to compare one to another, no way.

[countrygirl12]

So many ways to answer this. Men generally say ten words for every woman's one hundred words so typically men do not offer up information. Women will ask men about ex-girl friends and then men are dumb enough to answer. Men are also dumb enough to answer other leading questions such as "do you think she is pretty" and "how do I look in this". If a man is offering up the information he is probably under the gun. Perhaps his girlfriend has been snooping through his things, cell phone, computer, paperwork in the box under his shoes...whatever.  I know so many women that do this. I am really big on trust and if my significant other is snooping through my things there is no trust and it is time to say good bye.

Men snoop thru stuff as well.

[countrygirl12]

Sometimes it's to aggravate the girl or it could be that they just miss they ex

To aggravate the girl?  WHY do men do that?  Years ago I was dating a total looser who when we first started dating kept saying he could not wait til we had our first fight.  I was young and stupid and didn't know what he was leading up to.  Anyway, I kept saying "WHY" and his response was "It's fun to make up".  My response was "the first fight might be the last one".  Basically in his ignorance he thought we would fight and then have sex.  He finally got part of what he wanted.  We did have our first fight.  Then I kicked his butt to the curb!  I don't play games.

[gsdoss]

I have found or should I say we found each other who is a keeper. But he was married for 35 years and 2 daughters. Many issues to over come. But men and women process things in a strange ways.

[linderlizzie]

My uneducated guess would be that since everyone learns what they live, if they lived with, or observed, that sort of behavior at home, they will do exactly the same thing. On the other hand, if their past judgmental behavior in relationships worked out favorably for them, they will continue that judgmental behavior. It takes a long time to break bad habits.

We are all human beings with failings. We are wonderful in our own right and deserve respect. If your significant other will not respect you, they don't deserve you. Don't ever be afraid to move on. Be strong and carry on.