Doesnt really sound like eczema my two year old and i have it horrible. it itches like crazy, and burns, the skin typically cracks/ with or without bleeding, and looks flaky and bumpy. i have it on my hands arms and stomach. do not use scented lotions if you are going to use anything use either the one specifically for eczema or use aquoporics or under balm, scented lotions will just make it worse due to the perfumes in the lotions. If it is your detergents i would recommend going with the all free and clear or even going to baby detergents. they are a little more expensive but if it saves your skin.