I am so thankful my children did not have tantrums.. But if the got into an argument when small I made them set on the couch and hold hands. Oh I was a terrible mother. But as they grew into fine young men they were the best of friends. I have watched girls and boys throw such awful tantrums , I felt awful for their parents until I realized . I mean the kids would lay on the floor and kick and scream. Boy I wanted to just jerk them up and set them straight. they put up with it. Then I would have just walked out of the building and put them in the car and went home.
did my kids that were when they misbehaved. I lived 97 miles away. Took only once.