women

[mnichols4]

How many of u guys would stay if u found out if your man was cheatting on u the whole time

[clickers]

I would not stay. A cheater is a cheater especially if they're cheating for long periods at a time.

[BlackSheepNY]

The "whole time" sounds like a LONG time, and no, I definitely would not stay.  I would think there would be signs along the way to alert me to a "situation," which would lead me to find out more.

[vickysue]

I got out as quick as I could. I had 2 young children I need to think about. And he would have fought me tooth and nail for them, even if he didn't want them. So stayed for 15 years. The boys were old enough to choose where they wanted to be. the oldest wanted to stay and gradurate with his friends. The youngest lived with me until it was time to gradurate and he went back to his dads. because he wanted to be with his old friends. It was the hardest thing I did was leave them. But I was not going to fight with sob and have to put the children between us. As it was I won out in the long run and they spent a lot of time with me.

[kleenex40]

No i would not stay(i have to much self respect)

[LaTashaS28]

No I would not stay if I found out he was cheating the whole time... I would kick his butt to the curb

[Nancy5]

No, I would not stay with him.  If he cheated he didn't want me, so why would I want him?

[crisstar]

I would not stay. It's a self-esteem issue in my opinion. If you have any respect for yourself and your family you would not stay.

The only way it would make sense to stay would be if there were minor children involved. Even then, I would never sleep with him again and I would have to force myself to keep a cordial household for the sake of the children.

[sak4kat]

I wouldn't want to be with anyone who cheated on me 12 x.  5x's or 1 x.  The psychological issues that come with that is enough of a reason to not stay in a relationship. But the physical ramifications can be just as detrimental.  Nope if I'm not good enough for someone to be monogamous with than they aren't good enough for me.

[jenniferhoder]

NOT ME!!! I did- stayed with someone for 18 1/2 years and just recently gave up and got divorced.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[haimsterette]

I would beat it out of there ASAP. He wouldn't be worth my time; he'd need a smack on the head!!

[cateyes1]

Been there done that and I kicked him to the curb and quick

[blondie71]

I might be forgiving if it was just a one time thing but if it has been going on for months and months I don't think I could be that forgiving because to me that means he doesn't want me anymore.  So why would I keep trying if he wants to be with someone else no matter how much I love him I would have to set him free so that I don't continue to get hurt.

[lhz123]

I will not stay, its his loss not mine, he cannot find a nice woman like me anymore. It means he is not worth for me, I deserve someone better.

[bremer51]

I would stay. He would leave on his lying, despicable, cheating butt.