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LaKecias

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Making up with spouse
« on: October 27, 2014, 07:23:10 pm »
How many days do you and your spouse go without speaking after a fight? My husband and I usually don't go too long maybe a day two because we have kids.

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #1 on: October 27, 2014, 08:38:24 pm »
We have never gone overnight!  I can't fight with him!  I get mad and yell; he starts crying and apologizing, then, I just feel so bad, I forget all about it!  ::)

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #2 on: October 27, 2014, 09:51:10 pm »
we have never went more than two hours of not talking we both yell at each other then we blame each other then we blame ourselves then we talk about it and work it out fight over and done

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #3 on: October 27, 2014, 09:57:50 pm »
we have never had a fight small disagreements but it always work it out we don't go to sleep unless we make up

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #4 on: October 28, 2014, 03:10:26 am »
We have had our share of fights, but we have never gone to bed without making up.
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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #5 on: October 28, 2014, 06:18:26 am »
can't be long or it will cause divorce. Making up with spouse right away

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #6 on: October 28, 2014, 08:18:18 am »
We usually work out the problem, when we both are calmed down....There is no set time...

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #7 on: October 28, 2014, 08:49:01 am »
We always talk if there's a problem so that it will not worsen. We love each other so much so no need to fight talk and understanding is the key.

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #8 on: October 28, 2014, 02:49:12 pm »
Maybe 12 hours but that was mainly because we fought before both going off to work and then returning home later in the evening.  Even then, usually on of us will phone the other during the day.  Mostly only and hour or two....both of us usually more upset with ourselves than the other person by then so we can talk more rationally about whatever is upsetting us.

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #9 on: October 28, 2014, 04:42:46 pm »
I dont  really stay mad for that long(but the longest i have ever stayed mad at my husband was prob about half a day)

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #10 on: October 28, 2014, 06:41:55 pm »
I could go days before I got divorced but I don't think its very healthy to go that long without talking either with or without kids.

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #11 on: October 28, 2014, 07:21:27 pm »
The longest we've gone is a whole day, because my husband can be very stubborn!  Lol  I like to work things out right away and don't agree with letting the sun go down, but he is the total opposite. 

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #12 on: October 29, 2014, 05:29:42 pm »
Going on 18 years and never skipped a day without talking.

We always talk it over and mostly I'm always the one who is right  ;D   :kiss:

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #13 on: October 29, 2014, 10:21:02 pm »
We generally get over it pretty quick.

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Re: Making up with spouse
« Reply #14 on: October 30, 2014, 05:16:23 am »
How many days do you and your spouse go without speaking after a fight? My husband and I usually don't go too long maybe a day two because we have kids.
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