My best advice would be not to spend all your hard earned money on those silly diets and quick weight loss schemes. If you start a diet that consists of taking a pill or drinking a tea or something of that nature, the second you stop taking it, you'll gain all the weight right back and possibly more. The best thing you can do for yourself is look at what your eating and cut out all or most of the bad stuff. Deff try to eliminate soda all together. If you can't part with soda, try drinking diet soda instead. Switch from whole milk to fat free or 1%. Switch everything to low fat or fat free. Cut out all the empty calories wherever you can. Use those as little rewards every once in a while when you have a good week. Never skip a meal and eat smaller meals throughout the day. It keeps you energized and you feel like you're eating the same amount. Keep healthy snacks on you at all times. Don't keep junk food in the house. And use a calorie counter so you can see how much calories you are consuming on average so you have an idea of how much activity you should do to balance out the calories. You lose weight when you burn more calories than you consume. So if you know you eat somewhere between 2,000 to 2,500 calories daily. You need to find an exercise activity that burns at least 3,500-4,000 calories to see some weight loss. You deff don't want to eat less calories because you need them to be healthy, but consider where your calories are coming from. Eat food that will keep you fuller longer. Sign up for a gym membership or a class that you enjoy. If your not into being around other people cause your self conscious, hire a private trainer or if your strong willed enough, go for a jog or do a workout at home.