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ladycasshmere

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« on: April 30, 2014, 06:23:14 pm »
For those of you with a facebook page is your significant other on your list of facebook friends.I noticed alot of my friends deleting their mates as they say they spy on their page and start alot of drama. Mines got mad and posted something about our personal life and it pissed me off.some things should be private.I thought about deleting him from my page.what is your thoughts on this

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #1 on: April 30, 2014, 07:32:59 pm »
Isn't marital bliss more important than Facebook?

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #2 on: April 30, 2014, 07:36:13 pm »
My hubby refuses to have a facebook. But he reads a lot of posts on my page made by mutual friends. I also show him pictures posted by family and friends.



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Re: Facebook
« Reply #3 on: April 30, 2014, 07:52:57 pm »
facebook is for fun..reconnecting with old friends, birth announcements, wedding announcements etc.  it is not for drama and b.s. so i agree with you

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #4 on: April 30, 2014, 07:56:37 pm »
My wife and I are friends on Facebook.  We don't have anything to hide.

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #5 on: April 30, 2014, 09:15:48 pm »
i don't have this issue but these social networks seem to cause more harm than good

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #6 on: April 30, 2014, 09:55:13 pm »
Facebook is ok but I see friends and others posting things on their page as if only their friends will see it. People seem not to care if their boss see some of the most personal thoughts that they post. Just today I thought about closing my Facebook page. I don't have any real issues with it just sometimes people say stuff before they think.

 

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #7 on: April 30, 2014, 10:05:36 pm »
My husband and I are facebook friends and we have no problem. He posts a lot more than me and I find myself liking pictures that he posts. I too see facebook as a way to help me connect with friends and family, especially family that lives in a different state than me. I think there needs to be a balance. I hope you communicated with him about your being upset about what he posted. Yes, certain things should be kept private.
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Re: Facebook
« Reply #8 on: April 30, 2014, 11:48:10 pm »
I'm single.  :(  Lol!
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This is the internet, learn to let people have opinions. And don't be so sensitive.  8)

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #9 on: May 01, 2014, 12:24:11 am »
Ladycasshmere: why do u have separate face accounts? I don't know what cause him to retaliate against u 4him 2post something private in ur life history but adults that are couples & suppose 2love & respect each other don't do childish things like that.U should b a team against other offenders blackening ur character online not at each other. If u cant communicate in front of each other & solve issues u shouldn't b friends online or In real life!U should unfriend him online & delete him from real time as well!Trust equals love.Love =trust! Without trust there is no love & love can't existence w/o trust!

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #10 on: May 01, 2014, 12:46:05 am »
My hubby passed away last year but that was an issue between us because he wasn't well and he started putting mean stuff on so I deleted my account for a long time and he didn't like that either but I didn't know what to do because some of the stuff he was putting on the site was very distressing.  I hope you guys work it out.  Sometimes I think facebook is more trouble than it is worth.  :-X

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #11 on: May 01, 2014, 02:53:29 am »
We are both friends of each other on facebook, we have nothing to hide from each other.

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #12 on: May 01, 2014, 05:05:53 am »
No, my hubby is not part of my Facebook family.  My daughter and cousins are on Facebook and a lot of my hubby's relatives are on Facebook as well.  That is only because my husband is not the greatest reader, and when he needs something done, he generally gets me to do it for him. :male: :female: :rose: :rose:

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #13 on: May 01, 2014, 05:41:34 am »
My BF is not on FB but I have no problem with him going on mine. I have heard however that FB can cause many problems in a relationships!!

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #14 on: May 01, 2014, 07:11:50 am »
I have nothing to hide, so it is not an issue.  If a guy posts something offhanded to me, I simply say something like "Hey, that was him, not me", because I do have one friend that does joke with me that way occasionally.  But that friend knows that I am very serious about leaving it at the level of joking is okay, but don't cross that line, because he has attempted to and failed embarrassingly.  So I have no shame or secrets where my page is concerned.

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