Should Fate/Destiny/Serendipity Outweigh Reason when Deciding to Marry?

[mythociate]

A PARADE-article by an online-dating writer seems to think that's how it works; even though we've got 'automatic, instamatic' dating-services to analyze everything and tell us exactly who is best for us & -why, we apparently need some 'happy coincidence' like "a shared best-friend between our mothers" or "the advice of a horoscope/fortune-cookie" to cement the match!

For me ... well, there's no "reason" I should be alive-&-active (by 'reason,' I should be hooked-up to a machine costing my-parents/insurance-payers bazillions in life-support funds  ); & therefore &iquest:even less? reason a woman should marry me.

Right now, I think of myself as 'protecting' women from marrying me by NOT giving them a reason to; but one day one woman will 'accept the challenge' and marry me even after I go so-far as 'giving her reason NOT TO!'