Can someone please share with me how to get out of debt. I am robbing Peter to pay Paul.
First of all, make a budget of all income and expenses, including everything you buy each month, even if it's a lottery ticket, lunches, even coffee if you buy from coffee shops. You'd be surprised what you can cut just from putting everything in black and white.
If it's credit card debt, what I did was follow Suze Orman's recommendations AND Dave Ramsey. I had high credit card debt through hubby's hospitalization for a heart valve replacement and tripe bypass. I used to make $3500 a month and it was no problem making extra payments. Then along came a new way the work was being done plus offshoring of the good work so my pay went down and kept going down until I was only making $1000 a month.
I called each CC (4 of them) and set up hardship debt repayment plans (I had $35,000 CC debt because of paying all the bills while hubby was recovering; all household expenses, insurances, and taxes). I cancelled everything I thought I could do without, downgraded the cable, changed cell phone providers for lower monthly payments (cell phone was needed for hubby's work), cashed in life insurance policies and took out lower benefit policies, sold whatever I could on ebay, etc.
The companies gave me 5 years of paying the same amount every month. It was hard but I was making it. Then I lost my job due to no work, went on unemployment while looking for another job, which never materialized, so took early retirement. Once hubby could go back to work, he took over the household expenses again except for groceries, lights, and cable.
I paid off ALL the CC's a little early, but I still have one card that I keep only for emergencies and never went on the plan with them and it stays in a drawer, never in the wallet. Every extra penny I get now goes on that CC to pay it down. It had a $6,000 balance and I now have it down to $4500. It would be paid off faster but they upped my interest rate from 9% to 22% thanks to this recession and changes in the laws that Congress made 2 years ago regarding banks and CCs.
The only problem with the hardship debt programs with CC's is...your credit is ruined. My FICA was 750, but is only 645 now and it's tough to get the score back up, but maybe that's a blessing.
Good luck. I hope some of my suggestions help. It'll be tough but you'll be proud of yourself and a big weight will be lifted from your shoulders.