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cateyes1

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Re: Stopped talking
« Reply #45 on: November 02, 2013, 06:53:56 pm »
She is your daughter and she has your grandchildren.  I would keep trying in a gentle manner.  You don't want to look back in a few years and say, "I should have tried harder."

I don't know how much harder I can try. I have sent numerous emails, I have called her many times with no answer, I don't know what more to do. :dontknow:

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Re: Stopped talking
« Reply #46 on: November 02, 2013, 06:55:07 pm »
No I don't think you are wrong.  I have a brother and sister that I have never done anything to that came against me when I was caring for our mom with no help and they have not spoken to me since she died 3 years ago.  I don't care its their thing.  You can't make people love you or act right.  

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Re: Stopped talking
« Reply #47 on: November 02, 2013, 07:06:51 pm »
No I don't think you are wrong.  I have a brother and sister that I have never done anything to that came against me when I was caring for our mom with no help and they have not spoken to me since she died 3 years ago.  I don't care its their thing.  You can't make people love you or act right.  

Aww well that is sad on your part deb. I'm just going to give her space and see what happens. I don't like to throw myself at anyone even if it is my daughter...thank you!!

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Re: Stopped talking
« Reply #48 on: November 02, 2013, 10:27:56 pm »
I'm not married or anything nor do I have a child, But dont give up if she does not talk to you talk to her keep on doing so until she knows that you care for her deeply. If ya think you did something wrong amend for it don't just let it go thinking (whatever if you don't care why should I). Try your best to be part of her life and her kids Good Luck hope it ends well.

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Re: Stopped talking
« Reply #49 on: November 03, 2013, 03:30:19 am »
I'm not married or anything nor do I have a child, But dont give up if she does not talk to you talk to her keep on doing so until she knows that you care for her deeply. If ya think you did something wrong amend for it don't just let it go thinking (whatever if you don't care why should I). Try your best to be part of her life and her kids Good Luck hope it ends well.

Thank you so much for your advice. Oh I will NEVER give up on my daughter. I will always be there for her, but it needs to work both ways for it to work. I tried calling/emailing many many times with no response so I think I will give it a brake and just see what happens.

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