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cateyes1

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Hypothetical question???????????
« on: August 19, 2013, 05:06:25 am »
If you knew that your son or daughter was being cheated on would you tell your son or daughter? or is it none of your business?  :dontknow:

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Re: Hypothetical question???????????
« Reply #1 on: August 19, 2013, 05:13:55 am »
My daughter is my business.  Her happiness is my #1 priority in life.  YES, I would tell her but not until I had physical proof (pictures, others who witnessed, etc......).
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« Reply #2 on: August 28, 2013, 03:26:37 pm »
Yes I would.. I have a daughter and if something like that was happening to her and I knew about it I would tell her. It might hurt her for a little while but I would be there for her.

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« Reply #3 on: August 28, 2013, 03:35:26 pm »
took the words right out of my mouth!

My daughter is my business.  Her happiness is my #1 priority in life.  YES, I would tell her but not until I had physical proof (pictures, others who witnessed, etc......).

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Re: Hypothetical question???????????
« Reply #4 on: August 28, 2013, 06:39:39 pm »
Yes, I would tell both my son and my daughter.  It would hurt them at first and they would probably not believe me at first, but the truth always wins out and they would be thankful in the end. :heart:

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Re: Hypothetical question???????????
« Reply #5 on: August 28, 2013, 07:02:22 pm »
I'd tell them if I knew for sure. If it was gossip passed on by somebody else, I'd consider the source carefully before deciding on it.

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Re: Hypothetical question???????????
« Reply #6 on: August 28, 2013, 08:00:58 pm »
If you know for sure, there is no harm in telling your daughter.  If nothing else it gives her the information so she can make a decision about how to handle this.

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Re: Hypothetical question???????????
« Reply #7 on: August 28, 2013, 09:32:39 pm »
I'm with the others - if I had proof, there's no way I could keep something like that away from my daughter or my sons.

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Re: Hypothetical question???????????
« Reply #8 on: August 28, 2013, 09:34:40 pm »
Of course I would tell my son or daughter. I would want to protect him or her from future heartaches. It's better to deal with the issue now before the situation gets worse.

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« Reply #9 on: August 28, 2013, 09:37:54 pm »
I totally agree with the others. yes I would tell my son or daughter. I would also definitely have any proof at all like pictures, emails etc. I could not see either of them getting hhurt but I would let them know.

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« Reply #10 on: August 29, 2013, 05:59:22 am »
I love my daughter and if I knew something like that, I would tell her post haste.  I would want to see proof from someone.  I cannot idly stand by and know that he is cheating on her.  He better hope he don't let me see him, because I would give him a piece of my mind. ??? :o :o ??? :wave:

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« Reply #11 on: August 29, 2013, 06:58:49 am »
long story short is I told my son  his wife denied it but the strange car quit going to her house like I said short version and they worked through it but I almost destroyed my sons relationship with me cause I didn't get that absolute proof .  im lucky he and I worked thru this and we are now close again  tread carefully

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« Reply #12 on: August 29, 2013, 07:09:15 am »
YEs I would tell my daughters, even if they won't believe me, I would plant the seed on their brain.  In my case I rarely oppose their boyfriends, even if I don't like them much that if I tell them something they would listen.
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Re: Hypothetical question???????????
« Reply #13 on: August 29, 2013, 07:42:14 am »
I would tell my daughter as she is into trouble...... My business is to save my daughter in any kind of danger..... How can leave my daughter in a place which is not safe and I sleep  :sad1:

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« Reply #14 on: August 29, 2013, 09:43:24 am »
depends on your child and the relationship as a mother you have an obligation for her to find out however how she finds out is what you need to figure out because if you are not close to her you may cause more damage than good but she does need to know.

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