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bigedshult

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wife passing
« on: July 14, 2013, 04:29:22 pm »
on July the tenth my wife and mother of five  went to sleep and never woke up a gen .we as a family have been dealing with all of that .I have to get use to not have her around to do every thing for her .That is what I have been doing sense last January. now I have to fine what to do now. I may just get a moterhome and take off .

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« Reply #1 on: July 14, 2013, 06:01:30 pm »
Cannot imagine your loss and there are no words adequate to express. :-[

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« Reply #2 on: July 14, 2013, 06:29:38 pm »
on 7/13/2013 would have been are 40 together as man and wife I miss her a lot!if not for my sons and doughtier it would a lot hared!

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« Reply #3 on: July 14, 2013, 06:31:36 pm »
I'm truly, terribly sorry for your loss. If buying a motorhome is what you feel you should do, and will make you and your kids happy, then by all means. Take one day at a time. Time does seem to heal all wounds. Support from family and friends in times like these are a good thing to have, also. And sometimes, it even helps to just be alone. I hope the best for you and your family.

Dilly-dally, shilly-shally.

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« Reply #4 on: July 14, 2013, 07:07:15 pm »
I am very very sorry for your loss.  There are really no words I can say to make your pain go way or even make it less.  If getting a motor home is what you want then do it, just make sure it's what you really want and it's not a method of just running away.  Again, I am so very sorry for your loss, each day will be a little easier, but you will never forget.
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Re: wife passing
« Reply #5 on: July 14, 2013, 07:52:57 pm »
iam sorry for your loss just hang in there,things will be alright,just think of the good times you all had together.

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« Reply #6 on: July 14, 2013, 09:56:16 pm »
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your wife.  That is so wonderful that you two shared a life and family together for 40 years.  Words can't really express help for the pain and sorrow you are feeling and struggling with.  I'm glad you have your family surrounding you.  I will be thinking of you and your family.  Please keep us updated with how you are doing. 

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« Reply #7 on: July 14, 2013, 09:59:27 pm »
iam sorry for your loss just hang in there,things will be alright,just think of the good times you all had together.

Sorry to hear as well, especially since it had been almost 40 years....

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« Reply #8 on: July 15, 2013, 12:25:44 am »
I am sorry to hear the loss of your dear wife. Been together for 40 years seems like a very long time. May you find solace and peace in knowing that there is a Heavenly Father and his Son Jesus Christ who will always be there to give you comfort and peace. I don't know much about you and your family but one thing I know for certain is that only time will heal. You hang in there and please know that I am thinking of you and your family.

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« Reply #9 on: July 15, 2013, 03:08:42 am »
I'm sorry that you're grieving the loss of your wife, as well.  It sounds like you've been an amazing husband if you've been caring for her since January.

Now, it's time to take really good care of YOU.  You're at the end of one chapter and beginning a new one.  Give yourself time to feel whatever you feel and know that....

things will get better.     :heart:
Have a great day!

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Re: wife passing
« Reply #10 on: July 15, 2013, 03:59:00 am »
So sorry for your loss :angel12:

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« Reply #11 on: July 15, 2013, 04:21:11 am »
I lost my husband so I know what you are going through, I am so sorry for your loss  :sad1:...hang in there i'm sure that is what your wife would want!!

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« Reply #12 on: July 15, 2013, 09:03:33 am »
My condolences to you and your family. Motor home sounds like a great idea. If it is in your heart to do that, then by all means do so!

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« Reply #13 on: July 15, 2013, 10:01:35 am »
I have known Ed and his wife for a LOT of those years and he is going to be just fine. He has a great family and many friends, but most of all he is a good man.

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« Reply #14 on: July 15, 2013, 10:07:36 am »
Condolences to you and your family.  I will be praying for you and yours.  Don't get a motor home to quick unless  it is just for a short trip.  It seems like even though it is hard to stay put for a while, but it seems to be best so that  you don't think they will be back to the house.  It is hard but some of the being alone is just sort of necessary.  I am happy that you have lots of family and friends around to help you and them get through this.                                           

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