what would you do in this situation?

[batmobile]

r u smoking crack

[davidf938]

Have you even met this person? Doesn't sound like a good relationship to me.

[sarabtrayior]

Some of the folks are talking about cash... you should not send her cash and if she's not communicating, maybe she's having a bad day, week, ect... cut her some slack...

[march1971]

If you have an Internet relationship and you haven't met in person in a relatively short period of time, chances are it will never take off.  No matter how well the two of you seem to get on online, things are different when you meet face to face.  People are often not the way they represent themselves.  Also, you can't really tell if you have chemistry until you meet in person.  Finally, the two of seem to be having issues already and very different ideas about what this relationship should be about. 

As for the rest, it could be a scam and then again it might not be.  On the other hand, if you have never met in person, you have no idea whether she's really Ghanaian or really a woman even.

I have spoken to her over the phone. she is a lady.

The real question is have you sent her any MONEY?

she has never asked me for money. evidently she has really high morals. I tested her one time over the phone and offered to give her my CC information and she got mad and hung up.

[march1971]

Looks like you ae geting set up for some heart break. If you have not met her and only talked a few times, she is looking to hook a fish. Find someone in the USA there a lot of nice women and girls here and yes a few crooks too. But you could at least have her investagated like i did my hubby before i would date him. And we have been married for 20 years.

actually, we talk alot, but she was angry a few times at me. we seem to have this behind us.

[jmccaskill]

RUN like the wind, and hide! Change everything possible that is used to contact you.