cheating women/men

[sheliawheeler]

I don't know how I would react if I found out my husband cheated on me.  We have been together for a long time (married almost 12 years) and have 3 children.  I think it is different when you have children involved.  I probably would kick him out of the house if I found out.  I'm not sure though.

[lameremusicale]

As much as I would love to stay with my boyfriend forever, especially for the sake of our son... I am not the kind of person that can get over cheating. If he cheats on me, it's bye-bye daddy....

[Thundrstorm]

Had it happen to me and it's hard to forgive but it's hard to be mad at someone you love/ed for forever. You have to suck it up at some point and get over it.

[ellene]

urrgss cheating no good you should tell your spouse that you're tiredd

[Player54U2]

so.....what do you do if you found out she/he cheated on you?? forgive and forget? pack your things and leave?get revenge? or snap?

There shouldn't be any cheating, if a couple has to do that, they should not be together.

[DESHAWN21]

IF U TRUELLY LOVE THT PERSONAND YALL RELATIONSHIP WAS TIGHT. I THINK U SHOULD FORGIVE HIM/HER FOR WHAT THEY DID. BUT THERE WOULD BE NEW RULE N YALL RELATIONSHIP.

[sleepsoftangel]

If I found out someone cheated on me I'd wander what did I do and ask myself hundreds of questions why?  Plus, I can never understand why anyone wants to cheat when they find someone..it's hard enough finding someone to have a relationship with and feel that closeness with.  Yes, visually we may fall for a hunk or a hottie, but it's only looks..and if you already have chemistry and a person who is there for you, then why cheat?  I don't get it.

[itzjme]

in a relationship there should be trust n loyalty..
if your mate cheated, you should confront the person, discuss the reasons why and say where you stand.
i would say if anyone cheats their is no second chance.

from experience once a cheater second chance he cheated again 

[hjh1974]

It's the reason I'm divorced.

[PMZ908]

 

[PMZ908]

all i know is that women cheat more

[michealmmsm]

use your partner for all they got.  Then make her/ him watch you get picked up at a bar then leave them

[pigroxie]

Cheaters aren't worth anybody's time and should be left immediately, that's what I do. 

[trujillo33]

If my bf cheatd I would forget the guy and leave hime alone....he would not be worth my time!!!! However, I have seen a lot of people that forgave their partner for cheating....takes a lot to forgive a person!!!!

[lbeery]

I think that the trust issue would make it impossible to maintain a good relationship, but, it would also tell me that the relationship wasn't very good to start with.  Sometimes I think it is a major way to make something, anything happen in the existing relationship.  You know, they want out but can't find a way to do it so they set themselves on self-destruct.  I always thought it would be the last thing to happen after the all the other things you do to fix a relationship had failed.  I do know my sister had this happen to her (she is intelligent, attractive and highly stressed).  Both she and her husband travel a lot and have kids so I think in this case it was a cry for attention.  They seem to have gotten past is an now 12 yrs later are still married and seem to be doing fine.  I think she is a bigger person than I would be able to be though maybe she is just more secure in herself and sees that it is not the worst thing that can happen.