MARRIAGE ( im getting cold feet)

[jnjmolly]

Just relax...its normal if you are happy and have cold feet lol....good luck!

[thanhkle2003]

 
OMGeez...Marriage is like one of those death tone moment for me. I think it just complicates things between two happy people.

[thanhkle2003]

Oh yea and I think it's normal to have cold feet. It's like the first time you walk up to the assument park ride and you have that self-doubt moment. However, you go through with it just fine and it's a thrilling moment.

[bluacorna]

         Its so normal for us to get cold feet, but just remember He's going to warm them up  .  They are only cold once.
         You have a life time in front of you. one thing you need to remember, to help you marriage, never go to bed mad, nor work. try to talk it out. communication is the word. I hope he agrees. always talk things out. even if it means you both start crying. no one is to old to cry, if they love each other.               God Bless The Both of You and Many Blessings

[resebel]

Just relax and think the nicest future you'll have with the one you love. Everything will be fine!

[Jerry1216]

I tell you something and this is important and true if you don't have your marriage founded on God and his word it is going to fall apart. Either that or your just going to be together. You need to do some contemplating on God's holy word and what he says on marriage before you get married! If you haven't yet you need to surrender yourself to Jesus Christ or else your marriage and everything is going to fall apart and go to hell! When things are not "working out" your going to be hit with severe depression and feel like pushing away and if your not in it for the sake of staying true forever to God and the other person your not going to have a motivation to stay true! If you found your marriage upon what the scripture says it can not fall apart because it will be built upon the rock and when times go tough you will know that you are staying true to God and his word and that true Love as 1 Corinthians 13 (KJV WORD FOR LOVE OF THIS KIND IS CHARITY)  says seeketh not her own and is patient and kind and longsuffering (meaning you suffer long) is not proud and does not boast of itself does not act unseemly (or innapropriately) is not rude and love is the most important thing it never fails. Problem is man does not have true love in their fallen nature they all fall short because they have not God and God is love. We are sepereated from God in our sins ans transgressions and can not do the things that please him in our nature. He has made us far above the animals and going off of animalistic emotional instinct based relationships will not cut it. Because as Jesus said in Matthew 5 if you even look at another with lust you are committing adultry! You need the salvation of God be understanding your sinful way against God and how you have greaved him with your life and you need his love HE LOVES US AS IF WE WERE HIS BRIDE AND HE DIED UPON CALVARY"S CROSS FOR OUR SINS AND WAS FAITHFUL ON THIS EARTH UNTIL THE VERY END AND WHEN HE ROSE AGAIN HE PROVED THAT LOVE WILL NEVER DIE! HERE ARE A FEW WEBSITES ON WHAT A TRUE BIBLICAL MARRIAGE ENTITLES AND HOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN LAST TILL DEATH DO YOU APART! Truth from the Bible about Marriage

http://www.jesusfolk.com/Bible/Topics/marriage.html

Truth from the Bible about Marriage

(What God has to say in some scriptures about marriage.)

(Genesis 2:18 KJV)
(18) And the Lord God said, {It is} not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

(Genesis 2:24 KJV)
(24) Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

(Proverbs 18:22 KJV)
(22) {Whoso} findeth a wife findeth a good {thing}, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.

(THIS IS GOD SPEAKING TO MANY MEN NOT ONE MAN GOD HATES POLYGAMY)
(Jeremiah 29:6 KJV)
(6) Take ye wives, and beget sons and daughters; and take wives for your sons, and give your daughters to husbands, that they may bear sons and daughters; that ye may be increased there, and not diminished.

(Hosea 2:19-20 KJV)
(19) And I will betroth thee unto me for ever; yea, I will betroth thee unto me in righteousness, and in judgment, and in lovingkindness, and in mercies. (20) I will even betroth thee unto me in faithfulness: and thou shalt know the Lord.

(1 Corinthians 7:2-4 KJV)
(2) Nevertheless, {to avoid} fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. (3) Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. (4) The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

(1 Timothy 5:14 KJV)
(14) I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.

(Hebrews 13:4 KJV)
(4) Marriage {is} honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

(Ephesians 5:22-33 KJV)
(22) Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. (23) For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. (24) Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so {let} the wives {be} to their own husbands in every thing. (25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; (26) That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, (27) That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. (28) So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. (29) For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: (30) For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. (31) For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. (32) This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. (33) Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife {see} that she reverence {her} husband.

(1 Peter 3:1 KJV)
(1) Likewise, ye wives, {be} in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

(I Peter 3:1-11)
(1) In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word;
(2) seeing your pure behavior in fear.
(3) Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing;
(4) but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious.
(5) For this is how the holy women before, who hoped in God also adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands:
(6) as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose children you now are, if you do well, and are not put in fear by any terror.
(7) You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered.
( Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous,
(9) not rendering evil for evil, or insult for insult; but instead blessing; knowing that to this were you called, that you may inherit a blessing.
(10) For, “He who would love life, and see good days, let him keep his tongue from evil, and his lips from speaking deceit.
(11) Let him turn away from evil, and do good. Let him seek peace, and pursue it.

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[wfelagai]

is this your first marriage? if it is, everybody has to take the chance to go through it or else your going to keep running away from your fears and emotions.  talk to your fiance about it, she or he probably feels the same way but come at them right.