MARRIAGE ( im getting cold feet)

[acurtsinger2]

Nicely said.

all the trouble will be worth it in the end.  work hard at a good marriage and you will have one.

[tsubasa731]

aw, of course its normal, but on top of all that, congratulations!!!

[rhonnie73]

first of all i would like to say congrats...i got married in january of 08 and i had cold feet too, but all that disappeared as soon as i saw my soon to be husband standing there waiting for me...once u look into the eyes of your significant other, all the cold feet and jitters will disappear. 

[AmyTrivitt]

im getting married soon, an kinda getting super cold feet is this normal??  anyone have any suggestions or tips??

AW Congratulations!! And yes it is normal. Hang out with your girlfriends, thats what calmed me down the most.
And it is true as one post says"Once the wedding is over, everything goes back to normal." It does. Promise.

[kelann1027]

yes its normal...just think if something happened to her how would u feel, could u live without her???

[ancmetro]

Maybe, marriage is a thing of the past for some. Some people do not marry at all. Many of these people have successful careers, are single parents and do everything by themselves. Conclusion: "If you do not find the right mate, your soulmate...do not marry...it is that simple!...Better be single and happy than married and miserable".

[micang213]

Completely normal. The closer it gets the more the nerves show up.  Just sit down and think about why you are getting married to this person. What your life would be like without them.  Thats when I realized I was making the right decision, when I didn't like what my life looked like with out them.   

[mlbevins]

I was more nervous the day of rehersal that I was the actual wedding day.  My husband's family was driving me crazy the day of the wedding and I think that kept my mind off of things.  Once you get married everything will fall into place, and remember you marriage is what you two make of it.  Congratulations and good luck with life.

[crystal801]

I think that happens to most people.  It's just a stressful time and it's hard to get through all of the madness.  It will pass and when your wedding day comes, you will feel very happy that you stuck it out! 

[stephanie0001]

don't do it... run..run.. run....

[Sunshine84]

It is totally normal! My only sugestion is to take a few moments alone in the shower or go for a drive or anything where you are along and think about all the reasons why you wanted to marry this person in the first place. Think of all the good times you have had together and all the good times you will be having together. It is totally normal. I have been married for almost a year now. I remember when it was getting close I was getting not cold feet but worried and I went to the river and just sat there and thought about my relationship with my husband and I got over it. Good luck. You will be just fine!

[klutzycutie]

its normal

many brides and grooms go thro it

its scary

but just think that the one u love will be with u

thro thick and thin

and they will be by ur side

who knows wat the future may hold but

know this that

time will tell all

[letsearn]

Very normal, as they say. Don't have any personal experience though. Congratulations and good luck. 
Hey just realized,
Did you get married already?? My post is kinda late, so was wondering. Still u will need good wishes for the times to come, right?

[davidlazaro714]

I dont wanna get maried

[MikaylasMama73]

Trust your gut  feeling!!!!