why do we have to obey people wishes sometimes

[b1pearl]

Actually the question is: What are you gaining from obeying?/ Why are you obeying?

[mardukblood2009]

Anytime I ever obeyed anyone's wishes, I always ended up in a bad spot.

[ahunter300]

you only have to obey a wish when you make a promise - promises must be kept - just don't promise what you will not do

[penguinito]

you say "obey" like you are bieng forced to if thats the case you are following orders, obeying is not being obliged to do it but you wanna make them happy thats why youre doing what they want like obeying your parents or ur older siblings or your spouse, its because obeying them willingly makes them happy and contented which makes you satisfied that you made them smile.