need advice

[lparker5]

Ok so I have this weird question if you all want to join in it would be of great help....

     What does it mean when the man your dating is watching *bleep* while loving on you?

[alabreu5]

It's time for a new man....sorry. He should be into it not something else

[sak4kat]

Ugh!  I would take it as he's jeunvenile and is treating not just you but your relationship with no respect.

[skrogman]

Yeah, I would also take that to mean that it is time to start looking for a new man.  Sorry, but if you put it out there, you wanted to know.  He is really not giving you his all or his respect. 

[ktheodos]

Agree with all these comments!

[lparker5]

I see well kinda used to getting no respect from him in the first place now tell me how to walk away and find a new man when the relationship has been 7 years with 5 kids?

[visvern]

  wow! he must not care very much about you or your relationship. i bet he is probably a selfish lover too. what i mean he probably gets his and if your left hanging too bad. is that right? does he satisfy you? how is the rest of the relationship. how open and commutative is he? does he consider your feelings in other aspects of your relationship or is it always his way ot no way.

[sak4kat]

First and foremost take some time for to be mentally prepared.  Is he good Dad? If married seek an attorney for advice.  (Most offer FREE 15-20 min. consults) If not married still consult for advice on behalf of the children.  Make sure you can "make" it financially and if you can't come up with a plan so you can if you're not already.  Attempt to communicate with him...that is key if it's a one way conversation than ya do gotta do what ya gotta do. Good Luck

[tfw6693]

  As a married man of 40+ years. Find another man. You deserve better.

[queenofnines]

It could mean he's selfish, or it could just be what gets him hot. In either case, if it bothers you, it's time to have a talk.

[natashaspy]

means he should be sitting on the curb with his packed bags beside him!

[lparker5]

in regards to visvern the answer to all of your questions are no...The rest of the relationship sucks unless he has money or it's just me and him without the kids.  Those kids as he puts it are my angels, they are my pride and joy and he acts way jealous over them too.. Here lately he hasn't been coming home until 9 at night and that is with him leaving at 5 in the morning.   My time is coming for better I just know it.  Thanks so much to every one for the advice.

[Paulinha]

i am so sorry to hear about this. Maybe you should try to talk to him about what you are feeling. Communication is the key to any relationship. Also, I was suggest marriage counseling

[mperez7372]

I see well kinda used to getting no respect from him in the first place now tell me how to walk away and find a new man when the relationship has been 7 years with 5 kids?

Its an issue bigger than *bleep*.  You said it yourself- you are used to getting no respect from him.

[lparker5]

It's time I head out the door me and my kids I am so done with this relationship.  I have seen the signs and now I just keep seeing more and I shouldn't stay in it if he doesn't make me a better person...