Yes, we all know Christmas is about celebrating the birth of Christ. But the little guys don't understand why they get no gifts. The ones from about 5 - 10 sort of understand, but it is the most difficult for them to get nothing. So make things, or plan family (inexpensive) outings together. We have a tradition where we get or make chili dogs then go driving around (I know with the price of gas, this may be out!) for an evening to look at lights and decorations. We have a cookie exchange party at the beginning of the month, its great because then you have such a big variety of cookies to give out as gifts to people you want to remember but have no money to! The mailman (our mailman looks forward to it, he starts asking about the party around Thanksgiving!), the trash collector. It's a great gift for friends who just don't like to bake, but like to have goodies around for the holidays. We have a family dinner, only each course is at a different house. This way we see all the decorations, but the cost of the meal doesn't fall on one person. I also shop throughout the year at sales (with coupons only) if I see anything that I know someone will like or enjoy (right after Christmas you can get great deals on mittens, gloves, knit hats and scarves or sets of them, and it is something always appreciated). We make coupons for family members. My daughter with small children gets babysitting coupons, our grandmother who doesn't drive gets transportation coupons (we will driver her where she wants to go), coupons to do yard work (snow shoveling or leaf raking) or coupons for housework or cooking and cleaning up a dinner). You can come up with lots of ideas. When we lived in Colorado, we use to cut, deliver and stack fire wood as a gift, then they think of you every time they are warming in front of the fire. The gathering of the wood is a great time to have a picnic with the family, some family members can't do the physical work for the wood, but they can bring the lunch. I have a son-in-law who works for the studios, we get discounted movie tickets and you can also get the refreshment certificates too. As a family volunteer a your favorite charity or soup kitchen. Lots of these ideas cost you nothing but time, you just have to think out of the box a little. Brain storm, your family may be able to come up with lots of inexpensive or FREE ideas. The BEST gift is time, to be together.