Christian Advice For A Happy Marriage

[tfw6693]

Treat your wife as a "Queen" and she will treat you as a "KIng" 40+ years.
Never say, "You NEVER do this or that."
Don't say, "You ALWAYS do this or that."
If it won't matter in 7 days it doesn't matter now. Keep it to yourself.

[kcoleman2]

Treat your wife as a "Queen" and she will trat you as a "KIng" 40+ years.
Never say, "You NEVER do this or that."
Don't say, "You ALWAYS do this or that."
If it won't matter in 7 days it doesn't matter now. Keep it to yourself.

Thats some EXCELLENT advice right there! 40t years, you know what you are talking about! Congratulations to you and your wife on 40t years!

[dmahoney]

First..Happy Anniversary. Be respectful of each other, be faithful and try to think of each others needs. Good luck and my prayers for long and loving marriage. 

[lgemini]

You need to have Jesus in your marriage, he is your sound foundation.

[jcribb16]

She asked for CHRISTIAN ADVICE for a happy marriage. I AM A CHRISTIAN, so therefore i gave her MY advice based on MY CHRISTIAN beliefs. Thank you jcribb16 for being an understnding individual of personal beliefs. Thank you for trying to reasoning with Falcon but stop wasting your time. Falcon has a problem with CHRISTIANITY and anyone who believes in CHRIST. He will always respond in a negative way because thats the kind of person he is. Jcribb16, IN MY OPINION, Falcon needs love. He's not getting enough attention at home so he seeks it out on here. He's going about it in a negative way and that doesn't help. Lets stop responding to him. I've learned in life when you ignore things and people they GO AWAY!....... Wonder if he's going to comment nice about this or be negative as always!

That's basically what I was also trying to say awhile ago, that the advice was being asked from a Christian perspective.  Naturally those responses would come from Christians.  There were great responses, too, from people whose marriages are well, who don't base theirs on the center of God.  Those were given courteously and taken courteously. 

I agree he appears to enjoy the negative attention, but it's indeed sad that many times it's at the disadvantage of other innocent posters trying to share what's important to them.

[vp44]

All I can say is May God Bless you and your Family. For I am not a Christian and can not give advice on this matter, I am a Baptist.

[vp44]

Also if your a Christian, don't you have a spiritual Guidance person that gives advice on this and also may have classes of some sort, that you and yours can attend. That is the best person to ask I think.

[diala84]

Marriage is about communication and compromise. No matter your religion, beliefs or disposition on marriage. The only way a marriage fails is if one or both people give up on the marriage. If your beliefs align that is great and when they don't you have to agree to disagree. Be truthful about what you need in your life and don't give up things that are important to you or you will blame your partner for holding you back.

[falcon9]

All I can say is May God Bless you and your Family. For I am not a Christian and can not give advice on this matter, I am a Baptist.

So "baptists" are no longer xtians now; what are they, 'satanic-baptists'?

[falcon9]

She asked for CHRISTIAN ADVICE for a happy marriage. I AM A CHRISTIAN, so therefore i gave her MY advice based on MY CHRISTIAN beliefs.

That's irrelevant because the thread was off topic for the FC forum it was originally posted and replied to.  This specious subject/thread has since been moved to the off topic forum where superstition-based religious 'advice' can be exchanged those blinded by faith as before.

Falcon has a problem with CHRISTIANITY and anyone who believes in CHRIST.

The reaction is reasonable given the xtian-instigated atrocities of the crusades, the inquistions, witch hunts and other pograms which have resulted in the torure and deaths of millions under the banner of xtianity. 

IN MY OPINION, Falcon needs love. He's not getting enough attention at home so he seeks it out on here. He's going about it in a negative way and that doesn't help. Lets stop responding to him. I've learned in life when you ignore things and people they GO AWAY!....... Wonder if he's going to comment nice about this or be negative as always!

Why would I "comment nice" to a post which trolls and flames me for posting in rational opposition to irrational superstition?

[jcribb16]

She asked for CHRISTIAN ADVICE for a happy marriage. I AM A CHRISTIAN, so therefore i gave her MY advice based on MY CHRISTIAN beliefs.

That's irrelevant because the thread was off topic for the FC forum it was originally posted and replied to.  This specious subject/thread has since been moved to the off topic forum where superstition-based religious 'advice' can be exchanged those blinded by faith as before.

Falcon has a problem with CHRISTIANITY and anyone who believes in CHRIST.

The reaction is reasonable given the xtian-instigated atrocities of the crusades, the inquistions, witch hunts and other pograms which have resulted in the torure and deaths of millions under the banner of xtianity. 

IN MY OPINION, Falcon needs love. He's not getting enough attention at home so he seeks it out on here. He's going about it in a negative way and that doesn't help. Lets stop responding to him. I've learned in life when you ignore things and people they GO AWAY!....... Wonder if he's going to comment nice about this or be negative as always!

Why would I "comment nice" to a post which trolls and flames me for posting in rational opposition to irrational superstition?

It was still asked from a Christian perspective whether the thread was moved or not.  Moot point.

You hardly ever "comment nice" to Christians, period, and you dare ask why you would comment "nice?"  That's a joke, right?!!!  Watch it, you are admitting to being unkind in your responses.  You provoke responses and then can't take the heat - very telling...

[falcon9]

It was still asked from a Christian perspective whether the thread was moved or not.  Moot point.

The point was moot before it was asked on an inappropriate forum and subsequently moved to where its still moot, (since the premise is faith-based nonsense).

[jcribb16]

It was still asked from a Christian perspective whether the thread was moved or not.  Moot point.

The point was moot before it was asked on an inappropriate forum and subsequently moved to where its still moot, (since the premise is faith-based nonsense).

Your point is still moot.  Fail.  Just accept it, and move on.  You are showing your petulance. 

[falcon9]

It was still asked from a Christian perspective whether the thread was moved or not.  Moot point.

The point was moot before it was asked on an inappropriate forum and subsequently moved to where it's still moot, (since the premise is faith-based nonsense).

Your point is still moot.  Fail.  Just accept it, and move on.  You are showing your petulance. 

I realize that faith-based nonsense is moot; you're the one who petulantly cannot accept questioning her own blind faith.

[jcribb16]

It was still asked from a Christian perspective whether the thread was moved or not.  Moot point.

The point was moot before it was asked on an inappropriate forum and subsequently moved to where it's still moot, (since the premise is faith-based nonsense).

Your point is still moot.  Fail.  Just accept it, and move on.  You are showing your petulance. 

I realize that faith-based nonsense is moot; you're the one who petulantly cannot accept questioning her own blind faith.

And you are changing the subject since you can't accept the moot point of what we were talking about.  Nice twist, but failed...