rude people

[lovekittytam]

I really hate rude people who think they have to make fun of others. There ae these two girls in my class that always make fun of the one guy. Its like what did he do to you? Some people just need to grow up and get over themselves.

[shortnlovabl3]

its really just trying to make themselves feel better cause they have insecurities.

[remediagirl]

People Who Put You Down Are Hurt Themselves

The first thing to know is that a happy, self confident, person does not put others down. They might provide constructive criticism but they won’t put others down. This tells you a lot about the person who criticizes you. Some people are very negative about others because:

- they need to make themselves feel like they're in control or more powerful or to cover up their own insecurities
- they’ve experienced a trauma of their own in the past and they don’t know how to deal with the pain so they'll hurt others as a defense mechanism.

People’s tirades against you will probably reveal to you just how unhappy and disillusioned and frustrated that person is with life, and that's their problem, not yours. Knowing this can go a long way to being able to detach from the comments. If you know it has more to do with the person making the comments than about you, it makes it far easier not feel hurt by what’s been said.

Emotionally detaching from a person like this can be hard to do but you need to refuse to become involved. That person wants you to feel badly about yourself. Don’t give them that power.

Read more: http://www.life-with-confidence.com/people-who-put-you-down.html#ixzz28jbypHR6

[dkanofsky]

It's unfortunate that so many people have to hide their own insecurities by bullying others or simply being rude.   

[de3ik]

I don't like it when people are rude either. I always try to be pleasant and polite and if I make a mistake to apologize and correct the wrong.

I do give people the benefit of the doubt and know that sometimes people have had a bad day and maybe just said the wrong thing that would likely regret later. I also acknowledge that some people make mistakes.

However some people are just rude and have no sense of how to behave with courtesy and tact. I try to leave those people alone if they continue to be rude. Some people can't be reasoned with and don't want to be respectful. I try to avoid such people and conflicts whenever I can so as not to have my life overwhelmed with their negativity. Some people need a chance, but others just need to be left to themselves.

[kountrypeach80]

i agree

[vp44]

I really hate rude people who think they have to make fun of others. There ae these two girls in my class that always make fun of the one guy. Its like what did he do to you? Some people just need to grow up and get over themselves.

Hate is a very ugly word. I too dont like some things that go on, Bully tactics. At the end of the day think about that person when they excell more and maybe overcome the situation and become a great person. My son is always made fun of because he speaks hmmm lets say "speak so well". I continue to tell him that just because you pronounce each word in the right way doesnt mean that you are suppose to have broken english, and speak slang, or INTERNET talk.

[ssmsurvey]

If people could only be more genuinely happy and comfortable with themselves then perhaps they would cease to gain confidence through the degradation of others. If only....

[debrar]

Being rude affects your health. I can give you a heart attack, or make someone kill you. A person who is rude just don't like themselves, and want others to hate themselves too. I really don't like being around rude people, the atmosphere changes when rude people are around. Once a person is so rude all the time their lives will not be purposeful, their home life will be filled full of gloom and doom, nothing will ever be right for them, there will always be problems for them where ever they go. Rude people need to straighten up their life and live there will be a very different outcome. 

[joimhisbreezy]

I do not like rude people. Like what is going on in your life that you have to take it out on every body else. I believe rude people seriously need help. They aren't happy, they need to go to therapy to see whats wrong. Stop taking your fustrations out on others and get to the root of your real problems.

[LaKecias]

There is always going to be rude and ignorant people we all just have is to learn to deal with them. This world is filled with all types of people we just have to learn how to live with them.

[falcon9]

That's especially ironic, coming from you, (evidence: nearly all of your previous posts).

... just because you pronounce each word in the right way doesnt mean that you are suppose to have broken english, and speak slang, or INTERNET talk.

[falcon9]

There is always going to be rude and ignorant people we all just have is to learn to deal with them. 

Indeed, there have always been those who cling to superstitious beliefs and then rudely inflict their ignorance upon others in offense when challenged.

[lackeyk]

Rude people are just cazy, I have family members that are very very rude. People who are rude a couple of times and seem to be acting out of character may be upset at something else in their life, and simply taking their frustration out on you for no reason. Although that individual should know better than to let their emotions get the best of them, we all have our moments of irrationality. It's a very human quality.:bootyshake:This most commonly occurs with strangers, who don't expect to see you again and probably don't care about what you think of them. They don't bother to consider your feelings, especially if they're already emotionally bogged down by something else in their lives. Other times, you'll get into situations (e.g., at work or school) in which people are persistently rude to you. They may have some prejudice about your gender, race, occupation, etc. or may be judging you for something else that you've done. These people are usually obstinate in their views, however false they may be, and there is little point in trying to disprove their biases. Just anor negitive people. Good Luck with dealing with it!!!