I am pro-choice. most abortions must be BEFORE 8 weeks, and they are EXPENSIVE. i don't think anyone in their right mind uses them as contraception (which is a common idea among pro-lifers) if an unplanned pregnancy occurs, it wasn't intentional whether or not condoms were used or birth control was used. I know someone who got pregnant while taking her birth control regularly - as directed - with a condom that broke and got pregnant. For someone who did everything they are told to do, why should they not have another way to avoid the life they had tried so hard to avoid? many people associate abortions with the typical, invasive measures taken - there are other ways, including a pill taken at the office and then you walk out the door. A lot of people are against abortions because of the method used, but what about this new method? where do you get off suggesting that others should not be able to choose whether or not they want a child. you can believe in adoption over abortion, but what about those 9 months? what if that person was put on bed rest at 4 months? what if that person had died due to complications because she couldn't get an abortion? what if she had been raped?
Think about that one for a second, a 16 year old girl is raped, and gets pregnant, she cannot have an abortion - so she gives the baby up for adoption so she can forget the horrible thing that happened to her. Fast forward 18 years. that child now wants to find his birth mom, and he shows up at her door, asking why she gave him up. now change the circumstance from rape to incest. Would you allow a 14 year old girl impregnated by her own father, uncle, brother... to abort that baby?
If so, congratulations - you are now pro-choice. You cannot be pro-life and agree to it in a few situations, unfortunately society cannot work that way. otherwise we would have a TON of "rapes" so that an unplanned pregnancy could be aborted.
If you continue to say you wouldn't allow that young girl to get an abortion, I would re-evaluate your thinking process. What if it was you, your sister, your daughter, or your granddaughter?