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BK_Adores_Chase

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My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« on: July 23, 2012, 09:21:22 am »
it's like who cares, I like to get onto my facebook, big deal...I know plenty of people that like facebook from age 16 to age 50...we got into an arguement today and he's like, "better go talk *bleep* about me on your facebook!"  I wasn't going to, thank you!  Or, "Oh, on your facebook AGAIN?"  Actually no, I was paying bills, but what if I was on my facebook, are you gunna fight me?  :BangHead:  :BangHead:  :BangHead:

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #1 on: July 23, 2012, 10:27:48 am »
And you still "adore" him?

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #2 on: July 28, 2012, 03:25:29 am »
I am still amazed that people want to put their everyday happenings on facebook. I guess it is an inner need to say "look at me" like my 4 year old child.

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #3 on: July 28, 2012, 03:39:18 am »
I'm telling you facebook causes many problems and more people break up over it  :dontknow:

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #4 on: July 28, 2012, 05:30:54 am »
Facebook is not for me. I don't want my life to be an open book for a bunch of strangers.

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #5 on: July 28, 2012, 05:31:45 am »
Troll.

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #6 on: July 28, 2012, 05:48:45 am »
I deactivated my FB b/c it's just too messy.  My ex and I use to have such debates over FB b/c he would be on there acting single. After a while, I decided that's what he should be and now he acts like he can't breathe without me lol.  If you adore your fiance listen to him, obviously something you are doing/saying is bothering him. 

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #7 on: July 28, 2012, 06:05:14 am »
Personally, I think Facebook is fantastic. It helps you keep in touch with ppl you normally wouldn't be able to any other way. Lots of ppl are too lazy to even text/call nowadays, but EVERYONE will get on Facebook pretty much. I think your man needs to be a little bit more trusting of you and a lot more respectful. I can't even imagine talking to my wife like that. So what if you want to keep in touch with the rest of the world? Having a bad day and blowing off steam or a good day and sharing a little sunshine.. this is a bad thing? I guess you should look to see if your bf is treating you like this any other time than when you're on Facebook. The social network may not be the thing at fault here. Anywho, I wish the you best of luck. Cheers!

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #8 on: July 28, 2012, 09:42:17 am »
I like to keep up with family that lives out of town and play some of the games that are on facebook.But Facebook is a big drama page.But it's still nice
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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #9 on: July 28, 2012, 09:52:35 am »
I would just back off a little from Facebook because it's not worth your relationship.

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #10 on: July 28, 2012, 10:04:02 am »
I hate when guys have a problem with facebook or social networking, sometimes depending on who he is and how he treats you it could very well be worth the relationship.  I have a guy who says I can't use my phone or computer when he is around so in that case yes it's worth the relationship, family is forever guys are a dime a dozen and eventually you will find the right one who doesn't care if you have friends on facebook, not to mention it's not like he can't pull up the computer and check out what you are actually doing so who cares what he says or thinks as long as you are happy.

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #11 on: July 28, 2012, 10:28:47 am »
Personally, I think Facebook is fantastic. It helps you keep in touch with ppl you normally wouldn't be able to any other way. Lots of ppl are too lazy to even text/call nowadays, but EVERYONE will get on Facebook pretty much. I think your man needs to be a little bit more trusting of you and a lot more respectful. I can't even imagine talking to my wife like that. So what if you want to keep in touch with the rest of the world? Having a bad day and blowing off steam or a good day and sharing a little sunshine.. this is a bad thing? I guess you should look to see if your bf is treating you like this any other time than when you're on Facebook. The social network may not be the thing at fault here. Anywho, I wish the you best of luck. Cheers!
I agree with you.  I had deleted my Facebook account several times and the last time I thought would be "the last" but then I had some friends move away and I realized we could still keep in touch thru FaceBook like they were "still here" and it's been GREAT!!  Many of them are married or have a significant other and FaceBook hasn't caused them problems, they are "FaceBook" friends and post on each others pages (it's been kinda cute) and they both share alot of the same friends as well as have their own.

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #12 on: July 28, 2012, 11:36:24 am »
I happen to like Facebook.  I like the games and the sharing.  You can do a lot with it and still leave your personal life off from it.  It is each person's choice as what you post and each person's choice as to what you want to read. 

I can keep my personal life off of it and still have a lot of fun and let everyone know that I have not dropped off face of the Earth at times, I can be a bit of a hermit.  lol

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #13 on: July 29, 2012, 01:31:01 am »
BK_Adores_Chase~Why does he think you're goin to do something evil on the internet about his character? Have u ever done such a thing that he doesn't trust u on Facebook anymore?If this is the case, hon u need to do some real time heart to heart w/your man!Ask yourself these questions like: 1. why doesn't he like u on facebook or he doesn't like it altogether?2. When did he start hating FB?3.Are U spending too much time on it & your real time life w/him is cut short more than half the time?4.Don't even think of tying that knot if you can't give each other mutual time spending together, & most importantly respecting your mate. No matter how mad u get w/him don't ever degrade his character on line.The net is such a powerful tool that people have killed themselves when finding out something degrading,a hateful lie,put about them on FB. Most importantly, u & he need some together time, figure out what both of you think is most important in your relationship. I have a feeling that him seeing you spend so much time on FB is no differen; if you were cheating on him w/another man. It's true, I know a couple who divorced b/c his wife couldn't compete anymore against his mistress....his lap top! Good luck guys, please find each other again. Don't let it get to the point where both of you could be in the same room yet it feels like both of you are a billion mile apart! :thumbsup: :wave:

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Re: My fiance is always ragging on me about Facebook.
« Reply #14 on: July 29, 2012, 02:11:13 am »
I like facebook a lot but there are things I don't do or say there. Last year I took a bus to Tuscaloosa, Alabama from Atlanta,Georgia and when I got to the bus station downtown Atlanta I checked in on facebook. A few hours later I arrived in Alabama and checked in there. The very next day I received a message from a class mate that I had not heard from or seen since 1983. I am cautious when it comes to facebook. That could have been a bad thing, I am thankful that it wasn't.

We should not let social media sites cause personal problems in our lives, everyday life handles that very well.

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