Why are some people Nasty?

[kgolding]

I am really curious as an individual to find out ‘Why are people untidy?’ In other words “Why are they so Nasty?” It was from typing in the word nasty in Google search I realized that people translate the word ‘NASTY’ as people saying mean and cruel things to each other. When I use the word ‘Nasty’ I am talking about people who are untidy, these are people who are hoarders or just people who through their clothes, books, furniture, dirty dishes and anything else you want to think of as untidy everywhere. They don’t pick up after themselves and the dirty clothes, dishes and empty bottles just keeps piling up one after the other.
 
I wanted to find out if there is something wrong with their brain or do they have a mental problem or a compulsive behavior. I prefer to use the term ‘Nasty’ because it will give you a vision of the level of nastiness I am trying to paint in the minds of you my readers. I am so afraid to interview people who are truly nasty. What am I going to say to them? Hi I see the floor is covered with garbage and your bed has a stale pizza stuffed under the pillow for one year now will you do an interview with me. I would like to find out ‘Why are you so Nasty?’ Or when did you start getting nasty? Being nasty does not reflect a good hygiene. Rather it is something that is frowned upon by some people including myself.
 
In my opinion if you are a man or a woman and you are nasty you can’t possibly be having a long lasting relationship unless the person you are with is swimming in the same boat as you or really loves you. I on the other hand I really don’t like untidy and nasty people. I could not live with a person who is nasty for a long time because after a while I would get frustrated in telling them to clean up their mess or I will move out or they can move out. It is ok for things to be out of place sometimes but when it is all the time then that’s when you know the person you are with is nasty. If you are a man or a woman wanting to settle down with someone for a long time let me give you some advice.

The man you want to be with or the woman you want to be with may not know who you are nasty until they live with you. If you pretend to be clean for a few weeks and then you start showing your dirty colors your man or woman may or may not move out. If they do move out one of the reason could be because your nastiness is extreme and they are cleaner than you. I also believe that nastiness goes hand in hand with laziness. Being lazy can cost you your relationship, with friends, family and even your spouse.
If you have been offended in anyway by my opinions please don’t be and if you are you could be a person struggling with this demon of nastiness and laziness. I would love to really know why you are nasty and lazy maybe there is a drug out there that can help you or motivate your mind to be cleaner.
 
Please comment if you wish to.

[lbryanwf]

Sometimes it is a continuation of how they were brought up. Sometimes it is a mental disorder, that keeps them in that state of living. They collect things because there is something missing, and then they get so overwhelmed with stuff that they can no longer be organized. Theyneed treatment not scorn.

[frozenimage]

I guess you could say some people were raised differently. Maybe the parents don't care about etiquette or maybe it's a cultural difference. Really, it depends on what the person learned to become nasty.

[healthfreedom]

There are all kinds of people in this world. Nasty peopole ar just a fact of life. Why are they nasty? Maybe they had no home training.

[falcon9]

There are all kinds of people in this world. Nasty peopole ar just a fact of life. Why are they nasty? Maybe they had no home training.

Maybe they're santimonious nasty religious fundies.

[shepherdchik]

Honestly it's unfortunate that a lot of it stems from growing up and their families and how neat or clean they were, and a lot comes from the attitude too. There are some that if you saw their family you would wonder why they are like that because their family is the exact opposite but I wonder sometimes. It makes me sad to see children come into my store and they are rude and look like they just rolled out of bed and I hope that for their future they look back at their past and have the common sense t6 change themselves and organize their lives and drop the attitude. It makes me even sadder to see the grown adults that have an attitude with everyone and everything all the time, like they are better than everyone else. I wonder how they got a job or how they are married and have children 

[diala84]

I'm not going to use the word "Nasty" cause I find it a bit rude and insulting. I think that everyone has different priorities and different levels of tolerance for some things. Obviously you have a low tolerance for clutter, dirt, grim, etc.. while others have a high tolerance.
 
     Let me give you an example you have two roommates and one is always getting upset that the other doesn't do their fair share of choirs around the house. The problem is that the second one doesn't have the same idea of what is clean vs dirty. If you don't think something is dirty why would you clean it.

      I work with a lady with OCD and I find it interesting that she can be very compulsively clean about some areas of her life but ignore other aspects. Such as there are piles of boxes, tissues, and other scraps all over the floor and cabinets but she will focus on the fact that one drawer isn't pushed in all the way or she will want to dust just one object even though the object is in a pile of junk. We have a great ability to tune out anything that isn't important to us and selectively bring in information. For some people clutter and cleanliness are not important and are just tuned out. My brother is a very unclean person by nature and if left to his own devices he would live in piles of dirty clothes, dirty dishes, etc.. His excuses are he doesn't like cleaning, isn't good at cleaning and it doesn't bother him.

Some reasons why people might live an unclean lifestyle could be due to limited education about sanitary practices or cleaning methods, trauma (shifts focus away from cleaning), not of importance, physical disorders that limit a persons abiliy to clean, Mental disorders that may shift the focus away from cleanliness (depression, OCD, Autism, etc..), large family (many pets) household where it is difficult to keep up with messes, don't have time/money, inherited mess, etc..

I don't think there is any fix all for these people that live unsanitary lives. People have to want to change in order to change. Someone who hoards will still hoard even if their house was thoroughly cleaned and all the extra items gotten rid of. Making them live a clean lifestyle would be the equivalent to making you live a dirty lifestyle, it just isn't going to happen.

[vickysue]

Most of it is from not being brought up right. don't really care to be around nasty people. I find my own company is better then being around them.

[sigmapi1501]

Sometimes it be like "Man, did yo tongue just fart?"

[2getherwewin]

SOME PEOPLE TAKES THINGS DIFFERENT WAYS.

[nadarama]

It doesn't matter to me how people live!

[liz562]

no morals, or they simple don't care 

[tinajacksonville]

People dont really realize that being that nasty (dirty) is unhealthy. It can have a severe affect on your health.

[vp44]

They have lost the sense of respect to others no matter your religion, your thoughts, your race, or what is of importance to you. They interject they opinion any where they see fit!

[falcon9]

They have lost the sense of respect to others no matter your religion, your thoughts, your race, or what is of importance to you. They interject they opinion any where they see fit!

Yes, faith-blinded religious adherents do this with incessant proselytizing and then complain when their specious superstitions are rejected as irrational.