kids hurting you?

[pirewolf]

I have two kids and they are always hurting me. Just the other day they made me hurt my neck to the point that I can't move it from side to side. The jumped on my stomach so I whipped up too fast and hurt my neck. They hurt or get me hurt all the time. It never seems to happen to my husband near as much.

[girlswin2]

Sounds like you need to discipline them.  Sounds to me they have no respect for you and they know they can get away with it.  If you don't get it under control now the next thing they will start doing is hitting and punching you when you want let them do something.  I don't know how old they are but hope you can get them straighten out before it begins to get to that.   

My sisters boss is now scared of her kids it started out to be stuff like is happening to you now they punch her and cuss at her slap her in face steals from her and they havve even threatened to kill her.  All b/c she took away the game to make him go to bed and once he started the other brother added his 2 cents in it.  I will pray for ya.   

[falcon9]

I have two kids and they are always hurting me. Just the other day they made me hurt my neck to the point that I can't move it from side to side. The jumped on my stomach so I whipped up too fast and hurt my neck. They hurt or get me hurt all the time. It never seems to happen to my husband near as much.

Ductape.  Lots of it.

[davidh121]

Luckily I don't get that treatment or I really won't last. As to my story my nieces always want to play horsey when I see them and I coincidentally have back aches the following day or the day after. I try to keep myself in shape, but maybe this is just a sign of aging. One of them had a tendency to punch me [in the stomach and thigh] a lot when she was even younger. I suppose I should be appreciative she doesn't do this anymore.

[CODYSGIRL]

if your children are hurting you than you need to dicipline them no matter what they do. they need to know that it is not ok for them to hurt you or they will try to hurt other children

[RobertMendez]

nope no kids for me for a good while lol

[sofistak8ed]

I think it's our kids jobs to try and Hirt us in one way or the other everyday. Or at least it seems that way sometimes...

[pjlicari17]

This is not the way that I was brought up!  Kids today, (mine in 9 years old and tells me to "shut up" all the time!  I do everything not to BREAK HIS***, but as I have MS  at this point it would be a fair fight!

[Rowbin]

I don't have any kids, but I've heard from my parents that I hit them a lot when I was little (and just like you I was more violent towards my mother). I honestly have no idea why, and obviously I grew out of it. Just make sure to discipline them firmly but not harshly.

[sdenimandlace1]

wow, all ready out of control, what will happen when the cops show up on your doorsteps because they assulted someone that was not Family?  tough love is hard.

[Alexxalove11]

my daughter hits me all  the time and just me not my hubby  they say its becus im pregnant but well see when the baby is here

[angelmines]

I have two kids and they are always hurting me. Just the other day they made me hurt my neck to the point that I can't move it from side to side. The jumped on my stomach so I whipped up too fast and hurt my neck. They hurt or get me hurt all the time. It never seems to happen to my husband near as much.

I dont have aby childrn but i know where you are coming from because i all around me and i see i every day. Children are very playful and full of energy. I dont know where all th energy comes from but soetimes its to much at one time
 

[ziolablue]

teach your children some discipline already, if you do not this behavior will continue into adulthood and you would have failed

[timetravel]

I don't see why this is under the discussion of "offers" but since the question is here, I will give you the best answer I can.  Discipline, yes - but do not strike your children!  If you do, you are teaching them the correct response to hitting is...more hitting. 
The next time one starts, you can hold him or her, look the child in the eyes, and say, "No hitting".  Keep repeating it.  If the child struggles or tries to get out, hold firm.  Then, when the child is not attempting to hurt you, no matter how young the child is, let the child know that hitting and hurting another is not allowed, and if done, the child will get a five minute time out.  Enforce the time out if this happens.  Even if you have to hold the child down on a chair for the five minutes at first.  Consistency is the key here. 
Children who are out of control like this are usually miserable, and waiting for someone to stop them.  Perhaps they don't do it to your husband - their father - because they sense he won't tolerate it. 

[timetravel]

I wanted to add - if they aren't hitting you - just jumping on you - let them know you are not a trampoline, and that people are not to be jumped on.