my fiance told me this the other day...will someone educate me? I feel like it's unfair because I personally did nothing to the other countries, so why if I go there would I be hated on?!
That's just it, its not just about you as an individual, Its not a personal vendetta against you, its many years of conflict, religious differences, politics, power, ect. Unfortunately, it seems lately that the cycle never ends. The easiest way other countries choose to let Americans know they are pissed off at the US or other countries is by harming others who are otherwise oblivious to the unrest and conflict-innocents. And yes, It is unfair and cruel, but sometimes, when you reach your hand out to help foreign interests, like the US has done several times, past and present, they can either take your hand willingly and press for a change to all of the violence and death around them, or they can choose to slap it away, tell you that your very existence does not matter, and the fact that you are trying to help discusts them. In turn, they can choose to shoot you in the face, blow you up, take you hostage, threaten you and your loved ones, blow up buildings, and the list goes on and on. A *bleep* pointless cycle, indeed.
There are far too many folks in other countries that really dislike America and everything we are about, and there is nothing we can do about it. Such a deep-seeded hatred that has passed from generation to generation, its almost unfathomable to imagine. Peace is no longer an option. Its almost as if evolution has stopped, and understanding, empathy, and conflict-resolution has been bred out of their genes completely. Combined with one hell of a religious-jugernaught that is monotone and stedfast, the result is that compromise is seen as weakness, negotiation is a waste of time, betrayal and paranoia run rampant, and in turn, controlling others by fear and the threat of death takes over-forever.
Don't get me wrong, I stand behind our forces in the military, but military intervention, or not-you may be able to help bring relief from war and discontent to a few towns, but not an entire country or nation. Its just not that simple anymore. That is why the threat of being harmed when you travel overseas is very real and serious. Its Sad but True......... Listen to your fiancee', he knows of what he speaks.......