Should I cheat on my mate

[carty1]

Many people go through things in there relationship, but do you feel cheating would make you feel better. 

[richcrutch]

Cheating on someone that you claim to love would never make you feel better or make a situation better. You would have a lot of guilt in you life. Also the trust factor that has been built between you two would be broken and it would take a long long time before trust could be restored. Even then, trust might never be restored to the level where it was prior to your decision to do something stupid like that. Think how you'd feel if the shoe was turned and you were the one who was cheated on. Cheating is never ok!!!

[luvh8tragedy87]

If you feel the relationship isn't working then break up with the person. Don't go behind their back and cheat.

[marcee30]

No way...if you have to cheat just leave, I understand there may be history but if your even having those kind of feelings that could mean you are ready to move on and if that's the case if you care for the person at all just leave. Sometimes it may be good to take a break from one another, in a way it kinda test the relationship. I say if its ment to be it will be. In my experience I have learned honesty is the best policy.I have been cheated on and my things was....let me choose if I'm okay with you cheating on me. Hell i wanted to do it too BUT because I knew it was wrong to do because I was in a relationship I didn't, but that didn't stop him. Just to think all that time I could have been doing what I wanted when all he had to do was be honest. Would it hurt? Hell yeah it would but it's better for you to know first hand then to find it out on the street, it's better then being with someone you can't stand the sight of, it's better the letting your joy being taking. Yeah we all go through things in a relationship but I feel if you truely love someone it doesn't take for you to cheat to find that out. Besides what does that accomplish, how does that make YOU feel better. Is that really who you are or are you doing it out of madness. Whoever says love hurts is a lie. Love should never hurt

[patrick122068]

No, just be honest with this person and tell them that you are not in love with them. It is going to hurt,but their heart will heal over time and this person will have more respect for you for doing that, rather than you getting caught cheating on them.

[cloudsoup]

would YOU want to be cheated on?
always put yourself in the shoes of others...

[tzs]

Many people go through things in there relationship, but do you feel cheating would make you feel better. 

That is a very silly thing to say, perhaps you dont know what you want to begin with, and instead of dragging others down with you, you should be single. In other words, if you are considering cheating on your mate, going down that road only shows more immaturity on your part.

[potluck6]

leave it to a newbie to spice things up if your asking then your thinking about it.if you love your mate then try to work out problems. my sons girlfriend saw her father kissing another women and it shocked her  but her mother kind of knew and they are seperated now.i think they'll go back together anyway that was a few months ago  can't believe i put this on line here but i know when i see my son's girlfriends dad and will someday i'll look at him differently not in a positive way for sure

[sherryinutah]

Many people go through things in there relationship, but do you feel cheating would make you feel better. 

I think cheating is a good idea if you want to sabotage your relationship.

 

[demaina]

No. Generally when you agree to be in a relationship, there is a non-verbal agreement normally that you two are off the market.  If you can't handle that, you shouldn't be with someone.

[tssoutha]

What's the point of cheating?! If you don't love the person then leave them. If you love them then you wouldn't even think about cheating.

[annettefayeroach]

NO.  If you feel the need to cheat you need leave.  From one who was cheated on no one deserves that.

[cateyes1]

If you cheat then it's clear to say you dont HONESTLY love the one you're with so just walk away and save that person some heartache. I was cheat on and believe you me I wished that he just walked away instead of cheating on me, that hurts soooooooo much worse !!!!!!!

[maxinmotion]

"Should I cheat on my mate"? That is the question you are asking us. If you decide to cheat on your mate then the next question will be "I wonder if my mate is cheating on me"?

Since you asked the question I must say don't do it, guilt would send you down a well traveled bumpy road.

[Azanne07]

hell no