I find nothing wrong with the Extreme Couponers (the people, not the show, which promotes an idealized view without much helpful information). I wish I could do as well.
I have heard you can buy coupons off ebay.
I've also followed an "Extreme Coupon-er's" blog, where they donate hundreds of dollars worth of merchandise to shelters (rather than stockpiling or just letting the coupons go to waste) for what amounts to pennies from their pocket.
Those who think it's "cheating" don't know facts. Most coupons are never used. Most people who use coupons are middle and upper class - the lowest are the least likely to use them. Stores, unless it's store coupons or they're doubling or whatever, get all their money plus some back from the manufacturer. Obviously they put out coupons hoping you'll buy stuff you don't need or buy extra stuff while you're there or just TRY THE PRODUCT and like it, and it's a successful marketing ploy, or they wouldn't do it!
Learn to use the system and stop being so jealous of others.
For people who are sneering at those who "dumpster dive" or take coupons that will never be used (although I don't condone the stealing bit, I can see why they did it), you're saying you'd never reach into a trashcan if you saw a $20 bill sitting there? Because that's what they see - you throwing away money.
For those who get coupons and don't use them (not internet ones), why not donate them? There are military families living overseas, who can use those coupons on base and it really does help with their limited income. They even take expired coupons!
http://www.ocpnet.org/