What is wrong with married couples having separate rooms in the house?

[tantricia44]

If this arrangement is ok with you & your spouse why bring up the subject? Have other people in you're life been giving you a hard time with this mutual arrangement?
Personally, I see no problem with you're set up as long as both of you agree to it. I wonder though has you're husband tried to find help for his snoring problem? Snoring can also be an underling case of illness like sleep apnea. Some times people snore to compensate for breathing problems because sometimes they stop breathing while asleep. Get his doc to take a look at him.

If you're husband got cured for his snoring problems, would you still be in separate rooms? 

[raven1114]

i say whatever works best for the couple is what they should do.

[ricky981]

I have been married for 17 years and for the last eight years I have a separate room from my husband.  We are happy with this arrangement.   Since  I have been on disability any type of noise bothers me (my husband's snoring).  What is wrong with this?

i think that's an issue why get married in the first place if your not going to be as one. i though love conquers all.

[mrstina08]

I have to say this is fine for you. That is your normal but my husband and i have been together for years and have always shared our space. We both like it and that our normal.

[loulizlee]

My husband and I have been married for 48 years.  We have had separate rooms for several years now because he likes to sleep on a hard mattress, and I, with my arthritis, like the softest mattress possible.  We cannot afford a Sleep Number bed or something of that type, so we just gradually decided on separate rooms.  We are as close as we have even been and sleep better, too.

[chel3179]

Nothing wrong with that at all. ESPECIALLY if there is snoring involved

[ladycasshmere]

My spouse would have a fit if we has seperate rooms to sleep in but notice I said my spouse would have a fit!. Me on the other hand would not mind either way. After years of being together he still manages to rob me of my sleep. He snores. He goes to bed extra early then wakes me up out my sleep in the middle of the night. He is annoying.

[sommap]

 i think that's an issue why get married in the first place if your not going to be as one. i though love conquers all.
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Love does not conquer all.  It does not conquer many issues.  Ifr you are both comfortable sleeping in separate rooms, I don't see anything wrong with it.  Some people like to read in bed ro a while, others like to watch television until they fall asleep.  Some people like to sleep very warm, others like the window partly open, even when it is cold.  Some people sleep very quietly, others move around all night.  Any of these could make sleeping with someone else difficult.

[kingreyam24]

Nothing is wrong with it. You have to do what you have to do. I enjoy sleeping in the same room with my husband because it is really the only time we get to spend together between work and school. 

[jessicaroselorr]

You gotta do what you gotta do. I think many couples actually are very happy with this kind of arrangment.

[hollister237]

Awww. I don't think theres anything wrong with it. To each his own. It is odd though. I'm sure I would prefer that if I ever got married though.. I can't stand boys. Lmao.

[CHANEYLAKEGIRL]

There is nothing wrong with it. What ever works in your house is okee dokee.

[acurtsinger2]

I wish I had my own room, he moves around all night and it disturbs my sleep sometimes.

[d1cheetah]

We don't have separate rooms, but we do have a spare bedroom.  She likes to let the dogs (3 small ones) cuddle in bed sometimes, and I get stuck on the edge of the bed.  I sometimes just crash in the spare bedroom and tell her the bed was too full.  It's all in fun, and we have been married over 30 years and continue to be best friends.  I think that's the important stuff.  Where you are laying when you are asleep should not be such an issue, as long as your relationship doesn't suffer from it. 
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[ljrjess69]

i dont see a problem with seperate rooms