OMG! Right Now I Don`t Know Why I Am Married

[hensleyll]

My Mind Tells Me To Go But My Heart Tells Me To Stay!

[bigfoot951]

In my opinion, if someone has been married for any good length of time and they say that they have never felt that way, then I just think they are lying.  Don't worry you are not the only one who goes through those tough feelings.

[joannepas]

I totally understand...any thoughts on the bible and divorce?!  My husband did not actually have a sexual affair but he did turn to another woman for comfort and talked to her about issues in our relationship.  I definitely feel betrayed!

[ShalieNahito]

My husband is the most hateful *bleep* i have ever run across!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GOD Please Give Me Strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't listen to everyone who is saying get a divorce. I understand that you can't change the person they have to want to change themselves and do it. Pray to God, and get some counseling. Try making a list of pros and cons and write down what you can live with and you can't live with then work on them together with your husband. Let your husband know how you feel when he says or does hateful things. Find different ways to let out the stress. Try to figure out what gave you two that spark when you got married. A divorce is the very last thing you want to. If you need to go on a me time vacation, or a spa day to think things over with out distractions. I don't know I am just trying to give some ideas.

I don't know what you are going though, but I know this I grew with a father who is very predigest and racist. Also, he is very quick to his temper (one those I am always right kind of people and if you don't think like the way I think then you are a stupid person kind of person). It's very hard to live with it. Good luck and I wish you the best.

[hensleyll]

Well Thanks For The Ideas ! We Are Doing Better These Days, Learning To Talk Things Over ! Getting Better At Compromising, Praying For A New Year!

[schoolvan]

Man you people make me glad I am not married and don't plan to. 

[hensleyll]

It Not All Bad! Its Just Some Days Are Bad!