OMG! Right Now I Don`t Know Why I Am Married

[hensleyll]

Thanks, All our Kids Are Out Of  House Now,It Just He And I,Guess Time Will Tell! I Do Thank You All Fir Your Support.Somethings I Just Cant Say To Family! They Want To fix It there Way! Doesnt Always Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[diala84]

I imagine he feels really powerless and emasculated from his disability and his inability to provide for his family and himself. It sounds like his issues have a deeper meaning than just what it appears and he really needs help whether it is counseling or medication. You have to make it clear to him that you are not getting what you need from the relationship and that is it unrelated to his disability. Make the condition that he seek counseling and help from professionals or you will consider leaving him. Hopefully he will realize how much he really needs you and make the effort that is needed. I hope it all works out in the end

[ghunter]

Just like you stated, RIGHT NOW.  Who knows how you will feel later, after he say he is sorry and you both make up.  But if this is standard for you than, life is too short, get out now.  I have been married for 35 year and I believe the best is yet to come.  Be blessed and give it some time.

[hensleyll]

Thanks ,I`m trying I Do Have Hope!

[webmasterdn]

Get a divorse, that will solve your problem.

[hensleyll]

No I Dont Believe That Would Do It , I  Do Love Him And I Dont Want To Throw Away 29 Years Until I Know Ive Tried Everything       

[batmobile]

My husband is the most hateful *bleep* i have ever run across!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GOD Please Give Me Strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yeah i'm going through a divorce 10 years of that will drive u nuts. wish me luck in december hon. & i hope u guys work out ur diffrences.

[hensleyll]

We Are Trying I wish you luck my sister left her husband after 26 years ,I told her she had more kahunas then i do and she was always the good one who went to church and did every thing that way i did opposite ! kids moving in and then eventually marriage,been together for 29 years married going on 9

[lucky382001]

Depression often is a roller coaster ride and it is not any more less so for the one who is depressed than observers. Get counseling it helps.

[j1arias]

Oh god. There is just a lot of drama in this world

[jzmom]

I am sorry you have to deal with that. I hope you two can work thru this. I tried with my husband but he didnt want to make it work.  My husband was a total *bleep* and was proud of it. He would say his middle initial A stood for *bleep*.  Thank goodness he left me and the kids for someone 10 years younger.  Now his girlfriend of 10 years gets to deal with him! He doesn't want to make it work for her either.

[hensleyll]

Yes! The Other Woman Always Thinks she is best! Then It Hits Home! Shoot What Happened !

[astewart5]

Sounds like my sister. Must be somethin in the water.

[hensleyll]

maybe it is just crazy!

[mrisha]

My husband is the most hateful *bleep* i have ever run across!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GOD Please Give Me Strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Get out now.  I was married to one for 10 years, stayed 9.9 years too long because I was trying to make it work.  Too bad I was the only one trying.  So one day I took off from work and moved out, filed for divorce and never looked back.  God is giving you strength-he has given you the common sense to know that this person is not changing and its your time to move on and away from this individual.