OMG! Right Now I Don`t Know Why I Am Married

[derrick12480]

A man should always treat his wife like a queen. No matter how she treats him back.

[ashsmith91]

A man should always treat his wife like a queen. No matter how she treats him back.

 

[debrar]

A man should always treat his wife like a queen. No matter how she treats him back.

YES! YES! YES!!!!!!!!!!!

[Elizabethar]

Sorry to hear this, does he have any friends he can hang out with or family? I hope things works out for you.

[glenda1bruce]

I think at times we all feel we should not of got married. If your relationship is that bad get a legal seperation of a divorce. I would not want to be in a relationship if I was unhappy.  It will eat you up and make you feel horiable.  We all are not there and we don't see what goes on so this really nedds to be your disicion.  if you have tried to make it work and there is nothing you can do, you won't be able to change that person so you have to decide if the pro's and con's of this marriae, do what yoou think is right for you.

[mynevaeh]

If things are that bad and you are that unhappy than girl, LIFE IS TOO SHORT!! Move on, get a divorce and take some time to yourself.  It's not worth being with someone just because of a piece of paper.  If he is not the same person that you first met and first married than he did not keep his vows-so do not feel obligated to remain committed to someone that obviosly isn't to you.  Hope that helps.

[Tresbn00]

Surely there must be some good in the relationship?  Concentrate on the good times, try to communicate with him and let him know what is bothering you.  If there isn't anything good in the relationship I think that you need to explore why you choose to remain with him.  If it is because you have children...tis the weakest excuse because your children are being taught to stay in an unfilling relationship.  Life is much too short to stick with something that consistently makes you unhappy.

[hensleyll]

Well We Are Good Now I Would like to thank everyone for their support,come to find out he has been bottling anger up towards everything around him and felt like he was invisable! I`ve Learned to turn computer off once and awhile and just spend time alone with him ,no kids,or grandkids just me and him! It Really Does Take Two To Make It Or Break It!

[teflonfanatic]

the only scriptural divorce is adultery no other divorce is legal according to the bible!!!!

9 I say to YOU that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication, and marries another commits adultery.”(Matthew 19:9)

[hensleyll]

This job of stuffing envelopes we took on together has changed our relationship tremendously ,it is like we have finally figured out what team work means!

[wittylance]

Oh my so many marriages with to many problems.  I am young and have not been married but I don't know if I want to. I thought people get married becasuse they love each other what happened to the love you once had.  Try to look deep and be understanding maybe the problem is embarising and they don't want to get help I don't know but these type of relationships are not good.

[beckyguhlke]

stuffng envelopes... always wondered if that was worth it... let me know, lol!
my husband is military and his work recenly sent us on a marriage retreat...
may i say it worked wonders! Mark Gungor is the guy, an if u cantsee him live at least get the book "laugh yu way to a better marriage"... he was able to explain things to my husband in ways i couldnt... an i learned a thing or two as well!

[kodomfulmanar]

If his disability makes him like this, it means he hasnt dealt with it properly. How about counseling or other forms of therapy?

[tjshorty]

I used to think that about mine.  Then he got cancer, changed that dramatically.  Almost like him now.

[jenniferhoder]

wow... that is very sad. I think we can all say we have been where you are at least one time. Its hard to "stick it out" when you are treated so horribly. I think a good idea might be to get a hobby, or plan evenings out doing something you enjoy. Maybe with you gone, he will learn to appreciate you more? Good luck, and keep praying.