what is the best way to ask a girl out.

[scollontrade]

Sports are the great equalizer. Find out what sport she likes and get killer tickets and invite her. If she wants to go to the ballet instead then you are in big trouble. lol.

[gadi50]

If you already hang out alone sometimes then I would just ask her to go to the movies with you or something and see where it goes from there. As for your friend he should know how much are you into her and how long you have been into her so if he goes there that's his own bad and nothing that I would worry about too much. Any friend who is going to end your friendship over dating a girl is not a friend that you want to have. Just my two cents.

[tinnalouise]

It's best to ask her to go somewhere with you and a group of people.  in doing so, you are finding out what activities she may like or dislike.  It gives you an idea of what her interests are and see if you really match up..

[jpham]

Be a man, be direct. If she doesn't see you that way, be persistent and ask why. Persistence and confidence are traits women seem to favor a huge number.

[sfister65]

Wow, you are so brave b/c asking someone you like but don't know if she will return the same feelings is really scary. First of all to divert complications check her out from a far, is she saying things about you with her female friends. Or is seeking out another person she may have a crush on. When you're with her, is she sending out signals to you that she is interested in you as more than just a friend. Go, to her female friends & ask them or hang out in the bathroom girls like to gossip. Once you have the bases above covered & you're mostly sure that she likes you. Go for it! If she says yes, take her to places that she likes best. (dancing,movies,skating,swimming,)
You just have to take that first step. Good luck!!!!

That's really great advise.

[tantricia44]

Wow, you are so brave b/c asking someone you like but don't know if she will return the same feelings is really scary. First of all to divert complications check her out from a far, is she saying things about you with her female friends. Or is seeking out another person she may have a crush on. When you're with her, is she sending out signals to you that she is interested in you as more than just a friend. Go, to her female friends & ask them or hang out in the bathroom girls like to gossip. Once you have the bases above covered & you're mostly sure that she likes you. Go for it! If she says yes, take her to places that she likes best. (dancing,movies,skating,swimming,)
You just have to take that first step. Good luck!!!!

That's really great advise.

Thanks for your comment. It's rare to see kind responses on the posts. You're the first.  And it would be good advice if he takes it & succeeds. I wonder if he's taken the plunge yet?Sighhhhh.

[gadi50]

Wow, you are so brave b/c asking someone you like but don't know if she will return the same feelings is really scary. First of all to divert complications check her out from a far, is she saying things about you with her female friends. Or is seeking out another person she may have a crush on. When you're with her, is she sending out signals to you that she is interested in you as more than just a friend. Go, to her female friends & ask them or hang out in the bathroom girls like to gossip. Once you have the bases above covered & you're mostly sure that she likes you. Go for it! If she says yes, take her to places that she likes best. (dancing,movies,skating,swimming,)

[joyroos18]

just tell her upfront you like her and ask her to a movie, or out to eat something public and very simple,  dont forget a small gift nothing expensive something to remind her of the date,

[gadi50]

Wow, you are so brave b/c asking someone you like but don't know if she will return the same feelings is really scary. First of all to divert complications check her out from a far, is she saying things about you with her female friends. Or is seeking out another person she may have a crush on. When you're with her, is she sending out signals to you that she is interested in you as more than just a friend. Go, to her female friends & ask them or hang out in the bathroom girls like to gossip. Once you have the bases above covered & you're mostly sure that she likes you. Go for it! If she says yes, take her to places that she likes best.