Disgusted With Two Faced People!

[hensleyll]

  I Try To Be Nice Person, stay out of other peoples business. then i find out they have been going behind  my back badmouthing me.My oldself would have punched them in lip. But I`m  trying to set example for my 6 and 7 year old grandsons who have recently been removed from a violent family situation ! Any advice on how to deal with this particular problem!   

[wittylance]

I don't care for people like that but I am glad you are trying to be example for your grandchildren.  I am only 19 but what I try to do is ignore and and not stoop to there level.  And if that is the way they are just wouldn't talk to them.  I don't know if these are friends or relitives but just ignore it and go on with your life and if its family I would tell them privately not in front of the children (any children) how you feel about them stabbing you in the back.  Take care and I hope things go right for you.

[tzs]

Why even bother putting yourself around those people!! Life is too short to deal with backstabbers, so drop them and move on!!

[hensleyll]

well i finally tried to talk to them alone didn`t end well. But i feel relieved to have it off my chest! Thanks for the support!