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Ittai

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Mixed Message
« on: July 31, 2011, 09:00:48 pm »
 :dontknow: I meet someone 2-3months ago that told me they like me. But when i call her she doesnt respond? When i talk to her she says i need space and she is always busy? :dontknow:

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #1 on: July 31, 2011, 10:14:32 pm »
Maybe you should try to play hard to get for a while....If she is feeling you then she will call you...she might start wondering why you aren't calling her and then her true feelings will come out!! Good Luck!! Its her lost, i'm sure!!

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #2 on: July 31, 2011, 11:07:16 pm »
You have not known her very long just kick back and take it easy either she will come around or you will need to move on.  Play little hard to get let her call you and maybe it will go some where from there.  It hard these days to find someone to be a companion with you need someone who will comunicate with you love you for who you are.  A relationship goes two ways both have to be involved and now what each other wants from the relationship.

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #3 on: August 01, 2011, 12:48:44 am »
I feel it's time to move on. If it is someone I really like then I always make for them. I am not one to tell someone I like them if I really don't. I don't try to hurt people's feelings but there are only so many ways to say, "You're not my type...."

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #4 on: August 01, 2011, 01:14:23 am »
To be honest, it sounds like she lost interest. You may even be weirding her out if she's asking for space. Like they said, quit contacting her for a while and if she's interested then she'll come to you.

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #5 on: August 01, 2011, 06:55:37 am »
Don't sit around and wait for anybody, I am sure she is out having a good time.

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #6 on: August 01, 2011, 07:42:10 am »
I'm not into games.  If she really liked you she'd be all over you.  There is like and there is LIKE.  She may very well like you but not like you really want.  She may be very busy but she could still tell you hey I really like you but I'm really busy right now.  She told you she needed space which means I don't want to see you now.  Stop calling and move on. 

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #7 on: August 01, 2011, 07:57:11 am »
Sounds like she is moving on or not really that interested. I would look elsewhere and stop contacting her for awhile. Maybe you can still be friends after all this but romantically it probably isn't an option. Good Luck

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #8 on: August 01, 2011, 12:53:41 pm »
IT LOOKS LIKE SHE WAS IN BETWEEN BOYFRIENDS, SO SHE TOLD YOU SHE LIKED YOU TO PUT YOU ON HOLD WHILE SHE STALKED THE PERSON SHE WAS REALLY INTERESTED IN.  AS FOR GIVING HER SPACE.  GIVE HER ALL THE SPACE SHE NEED AND MOVE ON TO SOMEONE ELSE.
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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #9 on: August 01, 2011, 03:19:39 pm »
that doesnt sound good

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #10 on: August 01, 2011, 03:26:50 pm »
she isn't interested and is playing games instead of being honest.

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Re: Mixed Message
« Reply #11 on: August 01, 2011, 04:10:06 pm »
IT LOOKS LIKE SHE WAS IN BETWEEN BOYFRIENDS, SO SHE TOLD YOU SHE LIKED YOU TO PUT YOU ON HOLD WHILE SHE STALKED THE PERSON SHE WAS REALLY INTERESTED IN.  AS FOR GIVING HER SPACE.  GIVE HER ALL THE SPACE SHE NEED AND MOVE ON TO SOMEONE ELSE.


this sounds like a good plan and good advise.... move on and if she really likes you she'll be jealous and you'll hear from her.
Dating shouldn't be about so many "games" but it certainly seems to be sometimes

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