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kangagirl1321

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Re: WHY????????????????
« Reply #15 on: July 12, 2011, 03:34:05 pm »
i am 25 years old and i used to drink before i was legal but i didnt do it all the time. :thumbsup:

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« Reply #16 on: July 14, 2011, 04:57:19 am »
i am 25 years old and i used to drink before i was legal but i didnt do it all the time. :thumbsup:



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« Reply #17 on: July 14, 2011, 05:05:36 am »
just peer pressure...doing what they think everyone else does. acceptance?

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« Reply #18 on: July 14, 2011, 05:07:51 am »
just peer pressure...doing what they think everyone else does. acceptance?


I think that I was an odd teenager because I never gave into peer pressure. hey if ya didnt like me for the way I was then it was your loss lol  :wave:

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« Reply #19 on: July 14, 2011, 05:15:50 am »
I think a lot of it is just experimentation. Taking drugs, having sex, partying, etc.. are all ways to experiment with your boundaries and discover who you are as a person. I don't think there is anything wrong with that as long as it is done in a safe way and they are aware of the risks involved. I think the more you prohibit a behavior the more likely a person is to do that behavior. In countries where drinking alcohol isn't a big deal you don't get teens trying to binge drink themselves to death or becoming habitual drinkers. It is a parents job to inform but ultimately the teen will make the decision. Hopefully it won't kill them and they will learn valuable lessons from it.

I drank before I was legal but I did it with close friends in their homes. I wasn't out driving or in a sleazy neighborhood. I had a place to sleep and was around people I trusted. I have only drank on occasion a few times a year during the holidays or get-togethers. It is a nice addition but not necessary to have a good time. 

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« Reply #20 on: July 14, 2011, 05:18:35 am »
I think a lot of it is just experimentation. Taking drugs, having sex, partying, etc.. are all ways to experiment with your boundaries and discover who you are as a person. I don't think there is anything wrong with that as long as it is done in a safe way and they are aware of the risks involved. I think the more you prohibit a behavior the more likely a person is to do that behavior. In countries where drinking alcohol isn't a big deal you don't get teens trying to binge drink themselves to death or becoming habitual drinkers. It is a parents job to inform but ultimately the teen will make the decision. Hopefully it won't kill them and they will learn valuable lessons from it.

I drank before I was legal but I did it with close friends in their homes. I wasn't out driving or in a sleazy neighborhood. I had a place to sleep and was around people I trusted. I have only drank on occasion a few times a year during the holidays or get-togethers. It is a nice addition but not necessary to have a good time. 


I really like your way of thinking, thank you for posting  :wave:  :thumbsup:

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